Okay my son LOVES watching and playing soccer and after seeing this, I said oh!!! I see why America is the ONLY country that calls this sport FOOTBALL and not SOCCER !
I think that I would jump out of my seat in a stadium if I saw something like this happen to my son! GEESH….. These guys certainly are not displaying role model behavior!
Ummmm 10 to 6 is NOT a shift that I am talking about…. that is the losing score that my son and his team experienced today! Honey, I was so mad that they lost because I was in 91 degree weather and it is ONLY worth the heat if you win!! Listen, I do not understand how either of them are able to co – habitat in the hot summer weather with barely getting a drink / a liter of water to drink…. I am so not that type of person to be the point that I spent a whole 45 minutes in my car with the car blowing on me!
I am so serious…. being at this game with the heat and NOT being able to keeo my weekend of 4 days of being alone, relxing and enjoying womanhood and NOT motherhood was very irritating! I mean the mere fact that his team lost by 4 points was just as bad but the 4 runs that they obtained was a curteousy of my son pitching and allowing players to get on base because he was ONLY throwing “balls” and only a handful of strikes! He did good overall but my focus was on my alone time that was yet AGAIN shot to ruins!
Of course, as parents that we will do anything for our kids but I MUST SAY that this weekend was all about ME and it was taken away from me and I am focusing on what is the most important ………………………… at least for tomorrow! >> ME I have managed and proven my “amazing parent” award by my deeds and do not need a television t oshow me what else needs to be dealt with!
Okay…. ready – set – go! it is Saturday and it is super hot outside… Nontheless – I just arrived at the destination where my son will be for 4 days and I am so ready to leave him behind “”with a smile”" on my face! LOL
I cannot understand why the GOOD LORD above would see fit to allow the temperature to reach 91 degrees today! Actually the whole weekend is supposed to reach the high 90′s all weekend! My plan was to drop my son off and then RUN to the car screaming IM FREE!!…..IM FREE!! IM FREE!!! LOL
My son’s birthday is next weekend and although I was VERY excited to get rid of him for the whole weekend until Monday – I still found a way to stay with him when I dropped him off at his best friend’s house! LOL Funny right….. can’t wait to get AWAY from him but also hung out for an hour or two as well! However, this is supposed to be the beginning of his birthday celebration and maybe he deserves it and maybe he does not! LOL I think that I am doing this more so for me to get a break being totally honest!
LOL, I need a plan to get away! My son DOES want me to leave but his best friend, older sister and his mom wants me to stay!! YIKES.. NO!!! ( I am serious though! ) LOL
So I ended up staying for 2 hours and I actually did have a blast hanging out BUT…… It is time to go and be alone and do me because my girl pals are waiting! LOL
Umm…. Maybe I should NOT be so excited that my son is going to be GONE after his band recital tonight? Well that is all apart of Excitement 101′s FIRST STEP! We must EMBRACE IT so that we can effectively enjoy it! LOL
It is Memorial Day weekend and I seem to FORGET about it every year… silly I know but my son’s bday is the following weekend and we always go away and do something lazy, fun and exciting so that is what connects my mind with the month of May.
I will be FREE IN JESUS - LOL Having a good ole’ time………………. my personal little party will end on Sunday afternoon because he has of course.. ANOTHER baseball game! Lord knows…the Heavens know… even the little flies that irritate me as I am driving knows that I love my baby DEARLY…. to the point it can be indeed sickening sometimes…
But!!! and thank God for the but… he has been driving me BONKERS over the past month and a half! So yeah.. see ya bye! He will be at cook outs… swimming parties… birthday parties.. movies…amusement parks.. and I will be NO WHERE to be found!
EXCITEMENT 101- embrace what has made you excited and enjoy it to the fullest!!
Drum Roll PLEASE!! >>>>>>>FOR A CHANGE………….
I can JUST be a woman and not a mommy or SUPER WOMAN for a few days! WHOO – HOO!!
Umm… as a parent to an almost 10 year old little boy – usually parents WANT their kids to stay young or at least desire to watch their kids “grow gracefully” right? Welp, that used to be ME! My son had his little mini field trip today to his new school since he is entering into 5th grade for the upcoming school year and he just seem so much OLDER and a tad bit wiser for his age. Nonetheless, “at this very moment” I wish that he was getting ready to enter into high school. YIKES… I never thought that I would say that phrase “before it was time” seriously…
Do not get me wrong…. my son is NOT a bad kid – although “lately” I have indeed wanted to choke him and hold him down too many times due to his irritating behavior and moods. Yes he is a boy and going through things and I am almost even scared to think that he is dealing with early puberty stuff….. UGGGHHH that would so not be fun! LOL But hey, even though that talking session about how his body is changing should be a Father and Son conversation – we are so close that I am sure that it would not even freak / scare my kid out.
Point of this current R – A- N – T is to say that as a single mom I want him to get to the 9th grade so that I can stop being Super Mom and running and flying between soccer – baseball – band practice – no more taekwondo classes – taking a break via basketball and just sit down for a minute.
You see the photo ABOVE! That is how busy and CRAZY me and my son’s life be ” MOST DAYS”…… LOL He is on his way to music practice carrying his tenor saxophone in his baseball uniform because he is coming from baseball game!
I figure if he is older then I do not have to be Wonder Mom! A great deal of thins that he is participating in can be done maybe STRICTLY at school and if not – I can just have my baby in 1 outside activity!
Overall, I dont mind but seriously all of the activities that I mentioned are the things that my son does OUTSIDE of church
My son then is very active within his own church! LOL – The children’s ministry at this church is SUPER SUPER “duper” A-M-A-Z-I-N-G! My son participates in 3 weekly activities strictly for boys. Yes it may seem like a great deal but him being a boy and being taught by Godly Mentors are indeed PRICELESSS!
So that is also why I run myself ragged…………but oh Jesus I am so tired because at this point I just may hire a part time Babysitter / Nanny / Driver to assist me! I am so indeed serious! So I give a big HUGE shout out and big applause to all of the Single PRODUCTIVE Parents as well as the Mothers who are married but still feel like they “are single” when it comes to taking care of the kids!
Did I mention that there is a baseball game tomorrow, a soccer game and basketball on Saturday and a 3 hour baseball tournament on Sunday evening?
Dear Jared..
Dont ever allow small minds to tell you that YOUR dreams are too big!!!
People like this are obviously unhappy with their lives due to the unability to discover who they are and move forward via their own destiny.
Whether it is with the New York Yankees, Washington Nationals, Philadelphia Phillies or the Pittsburgh Pirates….YOU WILL be playing in the major leagues!
Your dedication and the hard work that you put in blesses me and I am proud to be your mom!
#TeamMLB
Yes…..long day … but I’m on my way to pick my son up because this evening the baseball league hands out their uniforms!
Im soo excited to see what the colors were because OF COURSE….my baby already had us go buy his red baseball shoes…..red baseball socks…black baseball socks….and royal blue socks! Also… along with 6 pair of belted baseball pants for the season!
Okay did I mention that he also got a red batting helmet and red baseball batting bag…..with a red – silver – black bat and LASTLY a new baseball glove..
Finally get to him and I get my hugs and kisses…..my mood shifts in a negative way!! Bigh sigh…
Well anyway… I pick my son up and he was acting weird …then advises me something that he did YESTERDAY that carried over today via him NOT telling me about it….
Im sooo disgusted….and OVER my kid right now…. He waits til Iget hus…kisses and take photos to let me know that he was acting up!
Lets just grab these uniforms so we can leave please… Wow his smile was fake!
Blah………..why wont my kid give me 7 STRAIGHT days of GOOD BEHAVIOR!!!???#@@@#@!!!&%%?
What he mad for?? Shoot he is the one who is in the wrong AGAIN!! God knows I want to pinch his face hard!!
He gonna smile now?….I am trying my best NOT to embarras him…blah… I am so mad at him for making wrong choices again!!
Okay…..
Besides my kid pulling a FAST ONE on me…My day was pretty good besides being a little tired…. parenting is such a CHALLENGE though!!….
Okay….im tired just even typing this from my phone….maybe cause its SUPER duper freezing….. but im ready to go so peace out!
Yes it is indeed freezing people…. Welp…it was the first day of Soccer yesterday evening and it was snowing…the wind was blowing and the temperature was VERY brisk!!!
Try the low 30′s!!!
I cannot believe how big my son is getting and has been playing soccer 3 years straight with FULL comittment!!!
David Beckham plays a competitive match for Los Angeles Galaxy. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
He wants to be better than David Beckham!
Everytime I get a complaining moment..I remind myself that I rather be ripping and running via his activities rather him not having the desire to do anything…
However…being out of the house 6 days a week is HONESTLY a tad bit toooooo much!!!
Regardless via being a Single Parent or not but with only me doing everything, it does take me into overload as he has gotten older.
Kids running around with coats and hats on was a cute…funny and weird visual….
They play and practice in the rain and snow unless it starts thundering or lightening….things continue!
Welp it did neither but it just had snow flurries with COLD wind and the ONLY people who complained about the weather was us parents!!!
Yup!….the kids were great! LOL
Honey….. I see that the weather is acting a tad bit bonkers right through here but with baseball and soccer and ME …I dont know how well that will work being outside in this cold!
Jared always wanted to be the pitcher but my baby does NOT seem to want to put the serious time into practicing.
I tell him allllllll the time that just because he is a good catcher and 3rd baseman does not mean that he should not have to practice….Geesh!!!
Now me personally…. I think that my son has impeccable form as a pitcher BUT it takes a lot more than form to be a successful pitcher let alone even a good one!!
He did an “okay” job at pitching today and as the inning went on the more players he ended up walking on base!!!
He is his own worse critic and the more players that walked on base it showed in his face and performance and he started doing bad……Really BAD!
The coach took him out and he never mentally and emotionally recovered. He was up at bat and struck out without even trying.
He will be okay….his team was very supportive and so were his coaches. However bottom line is that my son needs to put in the hard work…pay his dues and know that star positions in sports are earbed and not just given away.
Okay I was a HUGE wrestling fan years during the 1970′s through the early 1990′s and I am amazed that it is still in entertainment style today! The wrestlers that were popular when I watched it were respectful…tasteful and fun to watch -
I remember these Awesome Wrestlers :
1. Rick Flair
3. Hulk Hogan
Those are some of the people from that era when it was called the NWA and WWF and the wrestling that seems to travel all across the country has implemented more violence …….cage violence – major cussing – but the video games are WAY WORSE! My son always ask for me to take him whenever the wrestling matches come to town and I have been VERY hesitant!
However, Hulk Hogan, The Rock and his favorit ..John Cenna really seem to be NORMAL and appropriate FOR ALL AGES so if they will be apart of the act then maybe so! Geesh I get tired of even thinking like “the mom and dad” for real!
However, that really does not have me so bothered…. because it is a money maker I see…… however.. I think that it is a sad thing that I have to sit in the living room with my son when he wants to watch this WWF Smack Down stuff because the organization not only added more violence to the acts but women being added and dressing and talking soo provacatively……..
