Being Appreciative – that’s all…..

Do what i did today walk out your house and look back at your home and THANK GOD for SHELTER. Walk back in your home flip the light switch on and THANK GOD FOR LIGHTS. Because there are MILLIONS of people on the EAST COAST are without because of a STORM. You’re NOT LUCKY but BLESSED….

that’s all……



Most friendships only last for a particular phase of our lives. When that  developmental period is over, the friendship may dissolve. For a friendship to  last a lifetime there must be something really special between you.

There must  be a connection that transcends time and space. This kind of a friendship also  takes a certain flexibility. People change throughout their lifetimes and they  must continue to search for commonalities between the themselves if they expect  their friendship to endure.


Random Relationship Babble

Love is everything it is cracked up to be. That’s why people are so cynical about it… It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don’t risk anything, you risk even more.

Being Happy in Love is about how happy and satisfied two people that are in a relationship feel. It is about experiencing a positive, connected relationship. It is about being loved, respected and appreciated.

Being happy in love is about loving yourself, loving your life and choosing to be in a relationship that is right for you or transforming yourself and your current relationship so that you are truly happy. It is about being with a man who treats you with the love and respect you deserve. The main focus is on you and what you want in your life, not on trying to be what you think a man will want. When you love yourself you can be yourself, become magnetically attractive, easily attract the right man and effortlessly maintain a positive, loving relationship.

Being Happy in Love is about the “fit” between two people. The “fit” between two people has to do with having chemistry, compatibility and an emotional connection. Chemistry is the attractive force that brings people together. The emotional connection is the glue that holds a relationship together and compatibility is the key to lasting relationship happiness. To be Happy in Love, you need these three ingredients.

Embrace who you are and enjoy a relationship with a person who is truly right for you! Have the positive, loving relationship that you deserve. Feel good about yourself and be with a partner who loves you and treats you the way you deserve to be treated. Don’t spend all your time trying to “make a relationship work”. Learn how to easily and effortlessly maintain a positive relationship.


Helping Self...

My Monday Random –

It’s very easy for us to come up with reasons why we should not ask God for things in prayer. As Christians, we should seek the will of God in all things. Perhaps we should only pray for God’s will and nothing else, for what if what we ask for is contrary to His will?

If is is not God’s will, we should not want it, for it cannot be good. In fact, what is the point in asking for anything? If He wants to give it to us, He will. We cannot change God’s mind or affect His will in any way.

Asking God for things we need is closely associated with humility. God wants us to accomplish great things for His glory and for the Kingdom.

If we decide to do this on our own, we may very well do some good work, but it will be nothing compared to what we can accomplish if we permit God’s Spirit to work through us. Pride is a problem for many of us and it gets in the way whenever we think, “I don’t want help. I want to do this on my own.

” If this is our attitude, God obliges us and leaves us to our own destiny. However, if we can overcome our pride, submit to God and ask for His help, much greater things can be accomplished.

Helping Self...

Encouragement –


There are no short cuts to God, nor to His Kingdom. You must humble yourself to the Way, walk in the Door, and accept the righteousness of Jesus Christ. If you attempt to go to the Father and His Kingdom, by or through any other means, you are nothing more than a liar and a thief. We Honor God when we respect His order.
The battle that is constantly going on in the spirit is not about us. The devil lost, so he wants you to lose. But we don’t have to fall for any trick or treat(delusion or fleshly desire) that the enemy has put in our path. God has and will always make a way to escape. So sometimes standing looks like running and running is the best way to stand.