If we would stop crying and whining about those who have hurt and mistreated us and think about where we would still be if they didn’t, we would learn to fully appreciate what Jesus said on the matter. Bless them which curse you and pray for them which spitefully misuse you.
Understand this, if you hadn’t gone through that, you wouldn’t be where you are at RIGHT NOW. The pain was a part of your process. Rejoice and be exceedingly glad for great is your reward in the spirit realm.