Wolverine 2


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Hugh Jackman has done it again!!! Thus movie was excellent and surely done with great taste!!! For anyone who has followed The X Men series or even Wolverine will be pleasantly surprised when they seego and see this movie.

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Welp, Its no secret to my friends that know me “personally” that I tend to sometimes have a sweet tooth for Japanese men and one of my crushes was in the movie!! Lol….. He is a great actor too!

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Welp, hanging with my oldest son, his girlfriend  wasn’t too bad either!! Although I froze to death during the two and a half hour movie, it was well worth it….

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Quality time is something that cannot be bought, let alone taken for granted. .. so the people in MY LIFE that I choose to spend time with I hold it very near and dear to my heart… My sons are simply my joy and I look to God for his continued safety, love, favor and control over their lives.

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Seeing my oldest son grow into a young man just blesses me sooo much that I often shed tears!! I’m sooo Motherly as well as Godly proud of my baby.

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When I took this photo below of my son and his adorable girlfriend,  it made me think back to when I was his age….

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Just simply happy and bot a real care in the whole wide world! ….

Love my kids to pieces…

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Poor Example


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I just had a long extended conversation with my 11 uear old son about financial responsibility and his bank account etc..

Welp, how did I end up at the mall in a store dressing room about to try on 4 amazingly cite dresses? Like, I’m no exaggerations or anything!!!!!

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Here is my proof!! Lol do you see my clothes hanging on the hooks!!! Ask me where my son was as I was trying to sneak and try on 4 dresses????

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I walk out of the dressing room and lo and BEhOLd!!!! The boy is trying on dress shirts and he always wanted to get a pink one and I wasn’t tooooooo sure about my kid wearing PINK!!! LOL He looks good though doesn’t he!!!

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Well, I had to tell on myaelf and admit that the shopping spirit came over me for about 45 minutes. … All is well and better for us BOTh now!!! Pray for me and that I am a better example..  I’m so serious! ! LOL

Circles……


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I used to have several circles of friends and then I shrunk it down to a few circles…. then I shrunk it down some more. …

As we get older and go through things ..our views change..our desires… our wants..our needs..etc..etc..

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Naturally and Spirituality BOTH my circles have changed -shifted – matured – and I’m in a very good place… Just looking back over the last 10 years of my life, compared to NOW….  Whew, talk about change!!!

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Newness all the way through…. I earnestly do what I chose to do, spend time with whom I choose to, live how I choose to (Godly of course) with no apologies, go where I choose to etc..etc… I have no problem with saying NO or have the feeling of obligation. …

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Freedom. …mind, body, soul, spirit… I feel simply amazing

Funny 2 be hot, sweaty and irritated


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Listen…… It is a RULE that my oldest son is NOT permitted to be out and about with no hair cut – he states that it is a college thing….. I have heard that even when I was in college from guys and I did NOT get it then – and still don’t get it NOW! Nontheless, I do see that it indeed is an athlete little thing that they all do regardless of what sport they play – be relaxed…..
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WHATEVER THAT MEANS right???? Why do kids go away to college and just dress like “who done it” or they feel that they can “just chill and relax” 24 hours a day!!!! Welp, As soon as he got in the car – I gave him a love letter / Mom to Son poem and just STARRED at his head like…ummmmm after you quickly place your seatbelt around your body think about this…….
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“Baby, we are going to the barbershop right?”…………………he laughed and said yes ma’am…..  ( love this boy )
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However, the boy has so many different type of barbers that he likes to go to one was busy, the other wasnt there yet and finally got to the other place and I was sitting in the car STEAMING MAD – not mad for real BUT LISTEN – that sun was not nothing nice because we all know that the air conditioner in any car seriously kills the gas and I keep my air on!
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I sat there Sweaty…..Sticky!!!!! Hot!!!! ans just talked on the phone with like 6 different people complaining about my kid taking too long!….LOL and I didnt want to go inside the barbershop because it REMINDS ME OF A BUILDING FULL OF DOGS BARKING – so no thank you.
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When I surely was about to text my baby – he grabbed the car door and hopped in and seeing the GOOD RESULTS – the wait didnt matter to me anymore!!! LOL >>>> I AM SO LYING! …..hahahaa… but it was perfect timing – Quality time is a blessing!

Hanging With MY Young 2 Boyfriend (s)


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I LOVE spending time with MY young two boyfriends…. They make me laugh…. make me cry… make me OVER SPEND….they are always hungry…..always want something…..think they need everything…..like to touch me and hug me until I can’t breath….. and you know what???? 
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I SIMPLY LOVE IT – I am NOT a cougar ……..I do not like or have ” a thing ” for younger men but the 2 that are in MY LIFE has basically CHANGED MY LIFE….. You cannot help who you love right??? Well I LOVE THEM to pieces! LOL

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My two YOUNG BOYFRIENDS are my two sons!! LOL The oldest is 20 and the baby is 11 and they are BOTH can be a spoiled, irritating mess! They are my loves and would NOT trade them for anything in the world…. even when they drive me CRAZY.
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The relationship between mothers and sons is unique in many ways……Sons indeed are special.

Constantly nurtured in love, frequently this relationship defines young sons that will become and serves as a reservoir from which he later may draw memories and affection that will guide him as a husband and father. Okay did that make sense or too overboard?? Sigmund Freud type stuff? LOL
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From the warmth and security a boy experiences with his mother, he gains confidence and learns about loving and accepting others, listening and expressing his own ideas and feelings, and exploring the world in which he lives.
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The things he learns from his mother will highly influence the kind of relationships he will have someday with his own wife and children. Indeed, this rich relationship will define him in many ways throughout his life.
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I said all of that to say…… Spending time with your kids….. is very important…… I love on MY YOUNG BOYFRIENDS so that they know that I will always be there for them and God shall continue to form our bonds in the loving – caring – God centered  way.

E X P E C T


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Expect your child to mess up — all children do. And don’t get so upset when they mess up, when they don’t do what they’re “supposed” to do … because they’re supposed to mess up.

Expect your partner to be less than perfect.

Expect your friend to not show up sometimes or be irritating late.

Expect things to go not according to plan because most things do not.

Expect people to be rude sometimes because a great deal of them are.

Expect coworkers not to come through sometimes more than usual.

Expect teenagers  not to wash their dishes or pick up their clothes, sometimes because most teenagers do not.

Expect the glass to break.

And accept it.

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You won’t change these inevitable facts — they will happen, eventually. And if you expect it to happen — even see it as already happening, before it happens — you won’t get so upset.

You won’t overreact. You’ll respond appropriately, but not overreact. You can talk to the person about their behavior, and ask them kindly to consider your feelings when they do this … but you won’t get overly emotional and blow things out of proportion.

A Simple Conversation


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Well, since I have established a foundation that my son can come to be about ANY AND EVERYTHING….. I have molded myself to be alright with whatever with his answers are to the things that we discuss –

However but when it comes to relationships, we talk about several things and some of his replies have me astounded more so because of his age bracket!

Marriage – he says he does not want to get a divorce so he will take his time     ( whew I am so proud of my baby) and I am glad that he understands divorce which – he is a victim of it so he understands.

THE SIMPLE CONVERSATION

ME: Jared so what is your type because I know that you are starting to think that girls are cute! I see all those little girls at school screaming and saying Hi to you all at the same time! They sound like a bunch of cats that are in pain!

SON: Mom what do you mean my type

ME: What type of girls do you think is pretty, what type of career do you want her to have, do you want her

SON: I like tiny blonde girls at school, you know white girls mom

ME: Oh okay, is that the only type that you like? Just white girls?

SON: I like only a few black girls but they have to act normal like you

ME: Baby what is normal?

SON: Not loud and stuff mom, they are smart, short, pretty dress nice  and have a lot friends

ME: Awww baby, that is sweet baby but the things that you named are only a small part of what a woman is about

SON: What do you mean mom

ME: The things that you want in a woman should be things that cannot always be seen ONLY on the outside. How does she make you feel, what are some things that you would want your wife to do for you

SON: Do you mean like talking and praying and stuff?

ME:  (I am laughing so hard ) YES! Things like that baby

SON: Oh well I want her to be just like you because we talk all the time, you always ask me what is the matter, you ask me what do I want to do with my life and when I tell you something different each week, you bring information about that field. See mom, I want someone who is like you, always there for me and telling me that I can do it!

ME: Now, it makes me feel good that you want someone who shares some of the same qualities that I have but remember you do NOT want to marry your mother or someone like your mother. You want and should marry your best friend. I can’t be her and she can’t be me.

SON: Mom, I know, that is why you are always fussing at me so I don’t be a baby and lazy in life

ME: Okay???  We will talk more later

TO BE CONTINUED…….