A Happy 40


Nobody really teaches us how to be happy do they?  How come we’re not given an instruction book when we come into this world?  It sure would make things easier, but it certainly would make things less interesting.

We’re not taught the secret to happiness.  Isn’t that crazy? We’re taught algebra and grammar but we’re left on our own when it comes to our happiness.  So we end up making it so complicated don’t we?

We come into this life knowing how to be happy.  In fact, we come knowing that it’s our only real purpose.  But, somewhere along the way we forget this very important thing.

This is especially true for us women in midlife. We end up losing ourselves because we spend years putting our needs second to the people around us – our parents, teachers, friends, spouses, bosses, and religious leaders.

If you’re feeling tired, stuck, or bored; or your dreams are so old you can’t even remember what they are, it’s time to make some changes and put yourself high on your priority list.   Now is the time to focus on yourself and learn how to be happy again.


There are millions of women over 40 in the world who are thriving and living fulfilling lives. These women aren’t better than you, smarter than you, more worthy or stronger than you. They just know something that you’ve forgotten. But I’m here to remind you….. THAT YOU CANNOT FORGET ABOUT YOURSELF….

The more that I have CHOSEN to focus on ME, the more others have from time to time  GOTTEN UPSET.. It is due to them being used to ME ALWAYS placing them FIRST… soo sorry to let them know that I am no longer that person!

I am 40 and taking my life by the horns and riding it MY WAY! No apology will come attached either! I only get 1 LIFE.. AND I HAVE WASTED MORE THAN HALF OF IT….