Parenting

Observation –


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It is essential to know that to be a happy person, a happy family, a happy society, it is very crucial to have a good heart, that is very crucial. We all must find peace from within so that we can love one another effectively as God created us to do so. Peace is not just the absence of violence but the manifestation of human compassion.

So with that being said… it is VERY VITAL of the role FATHER in any given relationship with his child. Some have to be taught how to do and be things in life but also have the DESIRE to want to “do and do better” in all aspects. Do I feel that my son loves his father? Absolutely…. Do I feel that his father loves him? Absolutely…. Do I want things to be better between them? Absolutely….

I am praying earnestly that this is a beginning of something CONSISTENT AND AMAZING with the reconciliation of my son and his father coming together. ( for the 99th time ) This time around would make it a solid 100 and I have HIGH HOPES for this relationship to form and grow beautifully and it would become and REMAIN pleasing to The Lord.

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I do not want my son’s father “to take his turn” so to speak, I do not “want a break” so to speak BUT I just want his father just simply “to do his part”…. and remain CONSISTENT with love, compassion, understanding, availability etc..etc..etc.. and all that GOOD stuff that comes along with being a present parent. His father does has it in him – ……

I look at it like a descent guy who has really lost his way……. and maybe he just misplaced the ACTIVATION BUTTON!!! I am praying that little space where ever that button  is hidden becomes activated and stays ON! I have faith so I do believe it shall happen! When, I do not know….. but I do trust and believe that it will come and my son will indeed be glad about it!!!

Pray my strength in The Lord……. Pray my son’s strength in The Lord!

P.S. I am so serious about this topic!

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Inspiration

3 Part Inspiration


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LEARN from yesterday –

LIVE for today –

HOPE for tomorrow –

 

Learning to STOP and discover that I like roses……dig the dirt to place the roses…..buy the seeds to grow the roses…..take the time to nurture and water the roses…..so I can do things like this and have FUN with my son!

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Which in OTHER WORDS – is smelling the roses that I took time to plant!

Parenting

The Name of The Game is Called – Balance!


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In spite of us being at a funeral all morning and afternoon…..
Life still went on and I was totally tapped out.

Emotionally and Physically, I just didn’t want to do anything after the very emotional roller coaster that I was on and soooooooooooo didn’t even want to end. Nope I really didnt because I felt like the old me when I was around my old church family-friendly sainta!!!

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Nonetheless, there was only time for one persob to change their clothes…..and it was my son because he had a basketball game.

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Did it matter that I didnt feel like going? Nope… Did it matter that I was emotionally exhausted? Nope…. Did it matter that I have BALANCE and allow my son to go to his basketball game and he have my full attention AND support?

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Absolutely!!! I know enough parents in MINISTRY / CHURCH sometimes do NOT understand balance and place the ministry over Family things which is soooooooooooo wrong and out of order!!!

Dear ( ME )

7 Days of MY Week


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Monday Meditation: getting my mind prepared!

Tuesday Testimony : I always have one
regardless how good im living!

Wednesday Wisdom : focusing on how to maintain my Godly momentum!

Thursday Thoughts : reminding myself that whether good or bad that balance is key!

Friday Freedom : yes it is the weekend but at this point im glad that I made it thru especially if I was able to be a blessing to someone else!

Saturday Satisfaction : food, family, friends and FUN! (i so deserve)

Sunday Santification : so devoted to Jesus Christ because I owe him for not just the last 6 days that he blessed me with to endure BUT my life!

( Good Ole Fashion Christian Living)

Then it just repeats itself and gets better each week!