Helping Self...

Dear Self….


Dear Self……

Remind yourself to take a break AND breath…… Also even though there’s a great deal of things that you still desire to do, it is ALL about God’s timing.. God is in control in the midst of every hell and fire storm… Be encouraged and maintain your salvation so that you can continually be a witness.

Be happy even when horrid things happen. .. ..  Yes, its crazy but God knew YOU before you even entered into your mother’s womb… Put Christ first and things will get just a little bit easier in MOST cases. Get out of yoir own way BUT more importantly, get out of God’s way…. He is waiting! LOL

Remember, like in the book of Jeremiah, He knows the plans for you, so try to stay calm…In layman’s terms….God isn’t tripping because HE already knew how your life would be from the #beginning AND the #end…

So continue to walk in love..pray for more wisdom and allow God to work on a better you. The inside is what counts and your relationship with Christ will always be your TOP priority. ..

Allow the voice of the spirit guide you and tell your flesh MORE OFTEN.

Best Regards and Passionately Signed,



Quick Men – Random

Dear Respectable Godly Men –

I am just a tad bit tired of hearing women complaining on a constant basis on how their GODLY boyfriends. fiance’s and husbands treat them….. Last time I checked, a few parts of your role is to Protect her, fight for her, kiss her, love her, hold her, laugh with her. If she may fall, catch her!


Don’t make her fall, if you don’t plan to catch her & lift her up! Men LOVE your woman! A man has two options in a RELATIONSHIP:


Sincerely men, either stand up and be the MAN she NEEDS in her life
or PLEASE just SIT DOWN, so she can SEE the MAN behind him!




Girl Pals

The merits of female friendships are pretty well-established. Not least of which, who else will give you an honest opinion about your new hairstyle? However, many women find that their friendship circle shrinks as they get older. The pressures of parenting, work and spouses can leave little time for female bonding.

Cherish the old…….. Pray about the new…… and welcome what else God has in store for your life!

Many of us take friendships for granted. But lasting relationships provide more than someone to lean on when the going gets tough. In addition to the emotional benefits, camaraderie actually boosts your physical health. ( yes…being happy can IMPROVE your health )

However, remember that Friends are like Novocaine…… eventually you will see if the friendship like the dental medicine, is strong enough to deal with the pain that you SHALL / WILL endure!


Cycle of Happiness


Happiness depends more on the inward disposition of mind than on outward circumstances…….. and Being happy doesn’t mean everything in life is perfect, it simply means you have decided look beyond the imperfections….. God can SHOW YOU how to do this.


Happiness is the only good. The place to be happy is here. The time to be happy is now. The way to be happy is to make others so……. –  Happiness is never stopping to think if you have enough….doing enough…. because ultimately – you know that YOU are enough!

Generally, there are two ways to spread happiness; either be the light who shines it or be the mirror who reflects it……  Everyone wants happiness, no one wants pain, but you can’t have the rainbow without a little rain……   Whoever is happy will make others happy, too. –
The key to happiness is not to have what you want, but to want what you have………  Being happy doesn’t mean that everything is perfect. It means you’ve decided to live life despite the imperfections. So be happy, because life is not perfect…..
Happiness is a direction, not a destination.