Women's Stuff

Just Wondering Why –


Why are women always so catty with one another? I think of all the EXCUSES that people can use of WHY THEY ACT the way that they do and it still makes no sense besides low self esteem.
Some naive people could say that its the nature of the FEMALE.  Or maybe even humankind in general is the most warlike of all species, and its even worse if they are fighting to protect something. 
Is it that they will fight to the death to protect something they hold dear if they feel the enemy per say, is a threat. Or how about they will fight for the death if the enemy has something they want or need, or if they interfere with their lives.  I am assuming that 2/3 of these scenarios are why most of history’s wars are started.
There are more GIRLS who have the AGE BRACKETS of women but they are not happy with themselves so although they are 40 years of age – their behaviors clearly place them at a age of a 18 – 21 year old GIRL and not a WOMAN!  ……. ( sad thing is that this has been going on for centuries )
Honestly petty girls who do not know how strong they can eventually be like revenge and getting back at each other because it disgusting makes them feel better about themselves! But then you have the guys who too can be petty at times, however find a way to just hit each other and they are done with it.  Ummm…. and maybe I’m a girl and most of my friends are guys b/c girls like drama!!! LOL – geesh…..
One day a majority of women across the world will realize that we are BETTER and STRONGER TOGETHER!!

Seems A Tad Bit Rude –

What are you trying to say? That people who are voting for President Obama do not work? Hmm…….

Mitt, you are acting and talking like Vice President Joe Biden now…… Saying ANYTHING and it is coming from out of your neck!!! UGGHH I am not a huge President Obama Supporter – HOWEVER – this is a very SLY comment Mitt! It is so nice for you to show your REAL COLORS!

Cannot wait until this 2012 Presidential Election is OVER….. Praying God will allow the right person in office – whomever that may be.

Helping Self...

The POINT v.s. your argument

This is for all of the people that feel that they HAVE to get their point across! That term is something that we all have used but is it really getting us anywhere? YES! It is our goal to just “be heard” when we are talking, arguing or even debating right? Welp, after the FIRST 5 to 10 minutes, if you can tell that YOUR POINT is not getting UNDERSTOOD by your listener, then know that it will turn into a long discussion or a nice long debate. ( in other words, an argument! ) Debate is just a fancy word for argument, remember that!

LOL I indeed used to be one of these types of individuals! Not anymore though….. Yes! My Father was a very, very wise man to tell me these same words…because raising your voice does nothing but display that you either have anger issues and you are not capable of having an intelligent conversation. I tactfully find ways to improve my point so that my point will not only be heard but also understood….. and if I am ineed any good via how my father and uncles taught me >>> I will have also CONVINCED AND SWAYED my audience to believe ……. the very words that are coming out of my mouth!  #teamDADDYteacher

When we’re trying to get a point across to someone else we often think long and hard about what we want to say.  That is the wrong way to go about it.  Instead of focusing on what you want to say to get your point across, you should focus on what you want the other person to hear.  Also deciding to being free from drama should be at least one of your main focal points when having discussions about ANYTHING!

However, to increase your chances of getting your point across, focus more on the receiver than on the sender. Tailor your message to the TYPE of person / personality that you are indeed talking to improve their comprehension. Don’t worry so much about what you want to say as about what you want them to hear and understand……

Trust me, it works!

In the END you want to have your POINT understood v.s. having your argument heard!