Parenting

Never Too YOUNG To Learn The Truth –


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My son will be 11 years old in 2 months but the talks that I have with my son would blow the minds of some people. I mean, we talk about EVERYTHING and I mean everything. Sex, music, relationships, family, marriage, school, education etc..etc..etc..

The things that these kids see during this day and age you almost have to talk to your kids from the WOMB about the things of Life!!!  However, dealing with things like forgiveness is important and I chose to share some insight  with him and he paid attention the WHOLE time – which blessed me….

In the long run, it’s not a question of whether they deserve to be forgiven. You’re not forgiving them for their sake. You’re doing it for yourself. For your own health and well-being, forgiveness is simply the most energy-efficient option. It frees you from the incredibly toxic, debilitating drain of holding a grudge.

Don’t let these people live rent free in your head. If they hurt you before, why let them keep doing it year after year in your mind? It’s not worth it but it takes heart effort to stop it. You can muster that heart power to forgive them as a way of looking out for yourself. It’s one thing you can be totally selfish about.

Take it slowly. The deepest resentments are wrapped up in a lot of hurt and pain. We think we’re protecting ourselves by not forgiving. Acknowledge that and go easy on yourself. Forgiveness means that you’ve decided not to let it keep festering inside even if it only comes up once in awhile. Forgiveness is a powerful yet challenging tool that will support and honor you, even in the most extreme circumstances!

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Relationships

My Son and His Glad Heart!


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My son and this man has always shared a special bond….. It is so imperative that men REGARDLESS of what age, have male role models, male mentors, male inspired people in their lives……

Being able to share priceless moments is a blessing and my son appreciates all the male mentors in his life. Besides another male mentor that is in his life, no one can bring a smile to his face like this man.

We actually even talked about no matter what community event or church function we are at and he sees him, he becomes ax excited young man. I told him that I know he indeed loves his father, but he does NOT SMILE, GIGGLE, CHUCKLE, GET EXCITED the same way when he is with his father v.s. this man.

My son met him about 5 -6 years ago and he loved him from day one and my son said to me today that he can tell that he has a good relationship with God. I said yes baby, he is special and has a great deal of characteristics that people just don’t see nor experience anymore from men in ministry.

He said he wish that his father had the same type of Jesus on him!!!! I tried MY BEST to keep my facial expressions together but inside I did know AND UNDERSTAND what my son was speaking about. It is not always about how much time a person spends with my son rather than the impact of what is done for him in the time is spent with him.

Of course I never have or ever will speak harshly about his father to him but kids ARE VERY HONEST about their feelings!! What they see as well as what they feel!!! My son is an Old Soul anyway…

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Anyway, this Pastor / Bishop is a very nice……kind ….caring man of God who engages my son’s mind, soul and spirit and I am grateful that their connection was tactfully started years ago and is still very magnetic to my son from the moment he sees him.

This Bishop surely loves people and has a heart for REAL MINISTRY and he carries the scent of compassion that it’s soooooooooooo contagious!!!

Relationships

Random Relationship Babble


Love is everything it is cracked up to be. That’s why people are so cynical about it… It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don’t risk anything, you risk even more.

Being Happy in Love is about how happy and satisfied two people that are in a relationship feel. It is about experiencing a positive, connected relationship. It is about being loved, respected and appreciated.

Being happy in love is about loving yourself, loving your life and choosing to be in a relationship that is right for you or transforming yourself and your current relationship so that you are truly happy. It is about being with a man who treats you with the love and respect you deserve. The main focus is on you and what you want in your life, not on trying to be what you think a man will want. When you love yourself you can be yourself, become magnetically attractive, easily attract the right man and effortlessly maintain a positive, loving relationship.

Being Happy in Love is about the “fit” between two people. The “fit” between two people has to do with having chemistry, compatibility and an emotional connection. Chemistry is the attractive force that brings people together. The emotional connection is the glue that holds a relationship together and compatibility is the key to lasting relationship happiness. To be Happy in Love, you need these three ingredients.

Embrace who you are and enjoy a relationship with a person who is truly right for you! Have the positive, loving relationship that you deserve. Feel good about yourself and be with a partner who loves you and treats you the way you deserve to be treated. Don’t spend all your time trying to “make a relationship work”. Learn how to easily and effortlessly maintain a positive relationship.