Dear Respectable Godly Men –
I am just a tad bit tired of hearing women complaining on a constant basis on how their GODLY boyfriends. fiance’s and husbands treat them….. Last time I checked, a few parts of your role is to Protect her, fight for her, kiss her, love her, hold her, laugh with her. If she may fall, catch her!
Don’t make her fall, if you don’t plan to catch her & lift her up! Men LOVE your woman! A man has two options in a RELATIONSHIP:
Sincerely men, either stand up and be the MAN she NEEDS in her life
or PLEASE just SIT DOWN, so she can SEE the MAN behind him!
THANKS A BUNCH FOR LISTENING!!!!!
W -O – M -E -N ………… O -P – E – N ………………. Y – O- U– R …………….. E – Y – E – S
Women in leadership roles…. via ministry as well as being a wife….. UGGHH… being dominate isnt the answer!
Realize the man is the head and learn how to utilize your role to uplift him… (if you love him)
Understand that submission is an attitude not a cave man mentality syndrome…
Respect that a man needs to feel wanted…..remember they have pride
Re – evaluate your understanding of authority so you can stay in your own lane
Via ministry….. it is VERY EASY – EXTREMELY EASY – DISGUSTINGLY EASY for women to get pumped up…
First of all…. right now in the church – the NEED for “bodies” is at an all time high that a lot of people will tell you anything to get you into a position and pump the ego that you NEVER HAD BEFORE to keep you there!
Wisdom will tell you to pray and study the man before you jump off the deep end “assuming” that you are more equipped / knowledgable / more spiritually mature than your mate. Even if it is not your mate….it can be your brother…father…friend… etc.
Just support them!!!! Being a man in this world has enough of its own challenges…..and if the man is a minority – whew you really need to be a tad bit more sensitive!!! Be a lady and enjoy your role so he can flow in his with EASE!
Let men be men without you telling them what to do…. find wisdom ways to help show them.. (that’s better than telling them) even if we are right 95 percent of the time ( LOL ) let them feel as if they are right and figured it out all by themselves!
Anyway… back to leaders who tell you how wonderful you are and called of God!! LOL They are not worried so much about your destiny…your calling…your purpose etc.. and if you notice…….. women seem to be the TARGETS of getting their egos pumped more so than men! Women are emotional and if they have not been “properly affirmed” they will FALL FOR THE FEATHERLY WORDS that are spoken to them.
Due to the fact that a great deal of men have not been on their post spiritually / ministerally……..it has called the outburst of women to come to the forefront in ministry. Which IS NOT A BAD THING…. but like everything else… there should always be balance right!
Women preaching like men….women wanting to be ruler over men in the workplace…..in the pulpit….in the home….in the board room etc…etc..etc…. it is okay for us to be strong but not tough… I think it is so unbecoming!
ok im done!
Just as the photo says ” Mom, hurry and take the photo, because MY FRIENDS are looking”….. I thought this would happen at least when he was 13 years old and not 9! Geesh, cut me some slack… He goes to camp 3 times a year, once in the Fall, once in the Spring and once in the Summer. I dont think that I could take any more than that! In the Fall and Spring he is gone for 3 days but then I guess that prepares us parents to get “ourselves ready” for when they go away for 7 to 9 days in the Summer! Talk about crying! LOL I am so pathetic I know.. However, the camps that he attends, especially during the Summer time is SIMPLY AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He comes back like a fun filled funny Pastor! Also, I am able to write him letters while he is gone and his last trip, if I missed sending a letter I was literally having a melt down.
Of course, my sister made me feel HORRID saying, why does he have to get a letter everyday???????? My reply and way of thinking is like this… well isnt it great that while he is away at camp and having fun that they also can get letters from their family during ” chow time”… But the counselors call their names, one by one and for them to obtain their mail for the day, each kid has to quote a scripture and tell something about God’s grace! WOW, RIGHT?
I just love that… Okay I am done… I am already getting myself ready mentally because he is going away again in October for 3 days…
I will miss him, but this weekend I need a Mommy retreat… which just means… >>>shopping, school time, hanging with my mom, sister, homework, website building, church festivites and by the time I look up and over>>> I will have realized ” AGAIN ” that I did not spend any ME TIME! Okay.. next time will be different.. I guess! Lol