Random Thought on Heros


A hero to me is not just a person who died for there country or went inside a  burning building or stuff like that.
A hero to me is a single mother who  survives everyday by herself.
A teenager against all odds getting through  life.
An alcoholic walking into a rehab center.
A father being not just  a father but a friend, a caregiver, supporter, a brick wall for his kids.
A  friend who no matter what or how wrong you are standing up for you and taking  your side. A hero who no matter how hard they are being hit or pushed or beat  down,
no matter how bad they are emotionally or physically or  psychologically they stand up and keep going.
They push through the pain of  life, love, kids, work, school, drugs, sports, parents, heartbreak, alcohol
A person who isn’t just there, but is there living,  breathing, and surviving…  TO ME that to me is a hero.

Dear ( ME )

MINISTRY – Note 2 Self….


“Never underestimate the power of dreams and the influence of the human spirit. We are all the same in this notion: The potential for greatness lives within each of us.”

My LIFE is so bigger than “me”……. the things that I do…don’t do…the things that I say or even dont say etc…etc….

One reason why some of the ones that you have given to, poured into, helped and ministered to are not the same ones who are there for you now, is because  the were not your friends, but your assignment.

You can not build a relationship or set up a friendship in the “natural” off an assignment that is “spiritual.”


New – Old – Smile

Make new friends, but keep the old; Those are silver, these are gold. New-made friendships, like new wine, Age will mellow and refine. Friendships that have stood the test – Time and change – are surely best; Brow may wrinkle, hair grow gray, Friendship never knows decay.

For ‘mid old friends, tried and true, Once more we our youth renew. But old friends, alas! may die, New friends must their place supply.

Cherish friendship in your breast- New is good, but old is best; Make new friends, but keep the old; Those are silver, these are gold.

Smile,smile and smile smile a smile that travels a mile…
smile a smile because it takes only a moment But the memory of it lasts forever…
smile a smile that worries of tomorrow sink into And hope brings a way to have a lucky day…
smile a smile when somebody hurts you For a smile is a balm that is ever healing….
smile a smile like you mean it so that the fake smile you offer fades away…
smile a smile because it can do wonders A smile can help you out of some blunders…
smile with immense glow, smile with joy for it is an expression that makes an impression…
Smile for the people in the world Because the world needs people who can smile…

Smile,smile and smile because it is just better than quitting…


Letter to MY Friend


To My Dearest Sister and Friend Noreen,

I have shared my entire life with you. You have stood by me through all the odds of life. I am so thankful to God for gifting me with a friend like you.

I promise to always stand by your side, just the way you do. Together we shall cross every hurdle of life with ease.

You have always been there for me, helping me realize my true potential. I am so lucky to have a friend like you.

With you, my joy knows no bounds and sorrows bring no pain. Your support and care, has made me strong inside.

If am a good friend or a good person, it is because I am your friend. Our friendship has made me a better person. Thanks for being my friend.

You have made me understand the true meaning of friendship, and made me a stronger person. Thanks for your support and unwavering love for me!

Love Always,

Your Little Sister Val


loved ones #random

A friend is someone we turn to when our spirits need a lift. A friend is someone we treasure for our friendship is a gift. A friend is someone who fills our lives with beauty, joy, and grace. And makes the whole world we live in a better and happier place.

Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom……and I am a beautiful garden right now! LOL 

Some of the biggest challenges in relationships OF ALL KINDS come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something. They’re trying to find someone who’s going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.  Also the most important ingredient that we put into any relationship is not what we say or what we do, but what we are.

Little kindness and courtesies are so important. In relationships, the little things are the big things.

Present your family and friends with their eulogies now!!!!!!!!!! –  Trust me, they surely won’t be able to hear how much you love them and appreciate them from inside the coffin!!!!