Marriage Talk


I have a great deal of friends who are happily AND unhappily married!!! However, we indeed have LASTING CONVERSATIONS and just talk for hours at a time – NO – I am not married but I used to be…….and knowing God, hearing God, knowing what you want and how things should be is a good START for any conversational piece…..

We have to stop asking of marriage what God never designed it to give — perfect happiness, conflict-free living, and idolatrous obsession.

Instead, we should be able to appreciate what God designed marriage to provide: partnership, spiritual intimacy and the ability to pursue God — together. So, what do you think is the most common misconception Christians have about marriage?

“Finding a ‘soul mate’ — someone who will complete us,” he says. “The problem with looking to another human to complete us is that, spiritually speaking, it’s idolatry. We are to find our fulfillment and purpose in God . . . and if we expect our spouse to be ‘God’ to us, he or she will fail every day. No person can live up to such expectations.”

Everyone has bad days, yells at his or her spouse, or is downright selfish. Despite these imperfections, God created the husband and wife to steer each other in His direction.

When your wife or husband forgives you . . . and accepts you, you SHOULD learn to receive God’s forgiveness and acceptance as well. In that moment, THEY ARE MODELING God , revealing God’s mercy and helping YOU to see with your own eyes a very real spiritual reality. That AGAPE love that Christ himself wants us to exhibit!

While it’s easy to see why God designed an other-centered union for a me-centered world, living that way is a challenge. So when bills pile up, communication breaks down and you’re just plain irritated with your husband or wife,  These reminders to help ease the tension:

  • God created marriage as a loyal partnership between one man and one woman.
  • Marriage is the firmest foundation for building a family.
  • God designed sexual expression to help married couples build intimacy.
  • Marriage mirrors God’s covenant relationship with His people.
Women's Stuff

Is Thuggish the NEW Gay ?


Like can ANYONE advise me on what is REALLY going on with all of the OUTBREAK of this type of behavior…. I know that there are gay men in EVERY CULTURE / ETHNIC GROUP but it has been an OPENLY TABOO for blacks…..let alone the black man – So to even see this has me throwing up EVEN AS I AM TYPING at this very moment……. Thug is the new black maybe?  Hope Not…


I mean REALLY………… you cannot tell me that you are not shocked seeing the thugged up…..tatted up…urban looking ….sagging and drooping pants wearing men being seen in ” this interesting light “……………

ARE there ANY single…… STRAIGHT…… Heterosexual….STRAIGHT….. men LEFT  These Days?  KEY WORD >>>>>>>>>>> STRAIGHT just like this line _________________________________________ !!!!!  uuggghhhh –


On A Serious Note –

When you are a people pleaser and you have had the taste of a life that you do not want to give up….you will make decisions at any cost. Outcomes will not matter because your only goal is to obtain what you desire so badly and being re – elected is no different.

Being the ruler of a mega power does something to a person’s ego and whatever their religious beliefs ALWAYS cross over into the types of legislation that you will try to push and mandate for the country that you are ruling because you want everyone to think like you or at least share a great deal of similarities of you.


I obey God and not man. Obama is “currently” my President but He is not my Friend, Mentor, Family Member, Pastor, Bishop etc..etc..and certainly not my Lord. I Can’t stand with you on this one Mr. President, regardless if your last name was Obama, Clinton, Johnson, Washington or even Kennedy.
GEESH! Truth be told…. I am still in prayer mode and my flesh has FINALLY caught up to my spirit so I am no longer upset because this is a Spiritual attack and not a fleshy attack.
This is not a political blog update….Nonetheless, it certainly  involves a political figure. For those who do not understand why I am continuing commenting about the choice of the current president…….just PRAY!
People of The Christian Faith who are not ashamed to acknowledge Jesus Christ, I want you to be reminded that AMERICA is in some serious SPIRITUAL trouble!
The Holy Bible tells us and I tell you, that surely have some very TRAGIC things coming to us if we don’t get before God and cry out for mercy.
>>> OH GOD —— MERCY!!!

MY – Current – Political RANT

US President Barack Obama speaks on the economy at the State University of New York

The video at the end of this blog was surely ONLY made so that he could save any chances that he feels that he has to become re elected to The White House. I am so upset because he has stated certain key phrases via his non agreement of this piece of legislation and now ALL OF A SUDDEN he is feeling a totally different way??@#$%$!!##$

Just “stand your ground” be cosistent and stop lying! UGGHHH…. Jesus please deter any and ALL hidden agendas!

He is ONLY speaking up on this issue because his very incompetent Vice President was not AGAIN prepared for all lines of questioning.

I wonder if President Obama will keep him on as Vice President! OF COURSE he will because President Obama is indeed a people pleaser and not a world changer!

President Obama made it through a whole 4 years without having to deal with the same sex issue and he thought that he was “out of the clear” and did not want to tamper and deal with this “forbidden subject hopefully” until AFTER he was re elected back into The White House!

Nope, he aint slick and I surely can see right through pieces of his watered down strategy. Geesh….. I just want him to be CONSISTENT with his views that is all and he has proven NOT TO BE once again.

Loose Lips ….Sink Ships!! Well that indeed is Vice President Biden‘s problem. Professionally speaking, there is STILL no good reason “on paper” why Vice President Biden is in The White House besides the fact that this country’s current president “added him” to his ticket!

The world has seen since he has been in office that he has done and said things from the beginning and even until now. I am not a Mitt Romney fan nor supporter but I am CERTAINLY not a fan of President Barack Obama as well.

Please view the link below and if you are honest with yourself you will be able to tell as well that he felt as if HE HAD TO RESPOND to the Vice President’s mishap and is trying to do and say anything to keep himself “elect – able” in this upcoming election.

Barack Obama has more than 14 million followers on Twitter

Obama surely needs more donations and obviously he has NOW decided to “target and pimp” the gay and lesbian VOTE!

Barack Obama Top 3 Donors: Microsoft Corp-$304,690/DLA Piper-$302,527/University of California-$243,486

Mitt Romney Top 3 donors: Goldman Sachs-$564,580/JPMorgan Chase & Co-$400,675/Bank of America- $364,850

Ron Paul Top 3 Donors: US Army-$99,733/US Air Force-$75,652/US Navy-$73,057 (these are all actual donations from the individual soldiers).

Ron Paul gets more military donations that all other republican candidates combined (many times more than Romney), and more than twice as many as Obama. I will support our troops this election – Ron Paul 2012