Hmmmm….This Surely Encouraged Me –

There is a great deal that I DO NOT agree with in regards to our current President – Nevertheless, I will run across small snippets of things that he does “behind the scenes” and it is at “these moments”… my vantage point widens…..  Hearing him talk about REAL LIFE things – encouraged me –

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Networking With Positivity –


You’ll attract what you depict about yourself. So if you want to be with / or around a certain type of person then you have to display it in all facades, mentally, physically and spiritually.

I remind my son daily that although it is important to have a variety of friends. Having manners, saying please and thank you, knowing how to interact with common sense is very basic but indeed VERY vital.

However, if he plays the drums, the tenor saxophone, plays baseball, plays soccer, plays basketball and reads books on a weekly basis – It would NOT be such a great idea if he started hanging around friends who did NOTHING that he participated in. It is like being unequally matched up even as friends.

No your friends should not do everything the same, but it would make sense to spend your time with individuals who are like minded.

I am not speaking of ONLY personal male female relationships…. I am talking in reference to ANY type of places in life that you desire to catapult to.

Winners notice winners and mock what they did or are doing so that they too, can not only become a winner as well but maintain being a winner.

The image you portray yields the person you’ll draw to you so don’t get mad at what’s coming to you…check the mirror and see what you’re displaying!

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influence vs. power


I have discovered that there is a great deal of people in the world that feel that they have the POWER to change people….. regardless what they are indeed trying to change…they feel that they have a HUGE HEFTY role to play in other’s lives… Welp, I have a theory….. if people…. us.. had / have the POWER to change people…. then what do we need GOD for? Why does He exist? Why do we believe in Him…. and for those who are atheist…why should they!!!!

WE DO NOT….. have the POWER to change ANYONE…..but ourselves… when it comes to other people, we can ONLY influence their own personal choice and ability to change~~~~~~~

Influence can be just as powerful as the “power” that most think that they already have! LOL Look at all of these cults in the world… the leader focused on one thing…and one thing ONLY >>>>>>> the mind… if a person can grab ahold of your mind…then the process of influence will surely begin and before you know it…….the change is going to come… the leader DID NOT change the person.. but he influenced them to do what he wanted…..and the person then CHOSE to do CHANGE who they were to please the leader that influenced them… Get it? hope so!

If we had that type of power….there would be more wars going on in the world….there would be no sickness…disease..heart ache… poverty..etc. You get my point? Having power means that you can flip / switch a person’s mind…..their choice…their decision etc. Now for those of us who have not hit the lottery for millions or married into money etc. If you had the power to have Donald Trump give you money or hire you for a very easy job but pay you like a top executive, wouldnt you do it? Of course you would… but I would be in the front of the line!! LOL

There is a process to EVERYTHING that we do in life….whether we are all in the ocean and have to make a quick decision….. We / Some can either choose to be apart of the flow or be apart of bucking against the current…. in the end… it still “doesnt stop the water” for doing what it is suppose to do…

So just as the water knows its purpose…………Welp, so should we!