Dear ( ME )

Country Music –

Luke Bryan also tries to act so bashful…. He is so funny though – he is a COUNTRY SINGER who loves all types of music and just takes it to make it COUNTRY…. that is an artist! He took a rap song and made it COOL COUNTRY!

Country music is some sincere therapy but most people dont want to give it a chance because they cant seem to get passed the performer’s big hats and big boots and big accents! Well, I guess to the country singers they figure you dont have to as long as their other fans buys their records to give them big checks! Who in the world would ever think that they could listen to an ADELE song by way of country??!! Well Luke Bryan did it!

My OLD Country Crush below – whew Jesus is what I used to say everytime I saw this video…. besides his second verse talking about beer……. Im sure that he could have used a different verse! LOL He used sipping tea a great deal!

I mean crush to the point that when he said ANYTHING… I smiled so hard that my cheeks were in pain! LOL and I say OLD County Crush because he got married a few months ago… and having a crush on ANYONE WHO IS TAKEN is certainly a big “NO” – Regardless if he is a high profile country singer and the chances of me meeting him would be slim to none! Just call it Christian MORALS….



Hmmmm… I dont know why people are so into setting me up on a blind date and pushing me to do online dating… Welp, I have my own feeling that people online LIE…… they want to appear to be something that they are not. Granted it is not everyone I am sure… I have even read that a great deal of actresses and singers have went to online sites and have had major success stories…

Okay to PROVE my point to my friends I signed up and went onto a site and CLEARLY stated my interests short and sweet below:

 The Basics

  • · 5’3″ / 160 cm
  • · Female
  • · Black/African
  • · Average Build
  • · Divorced
  • · Has Children at home
  • · Advanced Degree
  • · Christian
  • · Doesn’t smoke
  • · Doesn’t drink


1. Skin color doesnt matter – Interracial Dating is Fine
2. I dont date those who smoke nor drink
3. Must have personal relationship with Jesus Christ
4. If MARRIED<<<< DO NOT contact me! Even if you are seperated, that means that you are STILL MARRIED-Thanks!

Perfect Match edit

There is no perfect match but 2 people who are different that are WILLING to making a Christian relationship work can be a match!



 War Movies ( 300 / Troy / Gladiator ) Drama ( Love Stories ( P.S. I Love You ) Documentaries ( Michael Moore ) Asian Flims ( The Curse of the Golden Flower )


 Biographies, ( U.S.Presidents, Italian and Russian Political Leaders ) Political, ( Bill Clinton, Juan Williams) Bill Cosby – Come on PeopleSPORTS / Football
Baltimore Ravensand Pittsburgh SteelersSPORTS / Baseball
Philadelphia Phillies

Now after that quick info.. I have gotten over 100 emails wanting to talk to me more via email or telephone…


I was so furious! My buddies are looking through the pictures of the guys that reached out to me and they could not understand why I was being so up tight.


Well while they were looking at the PHOTOS of the men that were sending me messages…


I was quickly directing them to THEIR PROFILE INFORMATION!


I pointed out that it was very evident that NONE of the men even READ my profile information because everyone who contacted me had the following below:

1. married

2. seperated

3. smokes socially

4. drinks socially

5. atheist or Catholic

So they ONLY viewed my photo and did not take the time to read ABOUT ME…. so there you have it.. no online dating sites for me! I am glad that I PROVED MY POINT TO THEM!!!

The wait is long but I will wait on the Lord because He surely has waited on me to get myself together… I will wait to see what He has prepared for me!

” Lord dont take too much longer please”….. LOL

Dear ( ME )

Ummm… Me? A Black Cow Girl? LOL

Country Singer, Jake Owen

Who would have EVER thought that I would BE a fan of Country Music???? However, this artist goes by the name of Jake Owen and makes me indeed “sing along”…..

Well, I do wear boots…. I do wear big hats… I do wear my hair sometimes long …( at times – LOL ) I do dance (umm, welp that may not have any truth to it.. ) but I can Salsa in the Latin Community standards…! Also,  I can and ” I DO” –  SHOUT in the black Pentecostal church… so does that count for ” DANCING”.. LOL

What else do country people do? Well I really dont know but just going by what I see via television and talking to a few friends who actually are country honky tonk to the bone. Farms, britches, and everything else.. Not judging, just going off of my own observation from what I have been around…

So back to my open ended question, so what do Country Folk do???Drink? Go to bars? Oh!! wait the BEST part!…. A great deal of them write songs about their real life but most of the songs are REALLY sad… LOL.. Welp, I dont drink but I will GUZZLE a Vitamin Water! I have tons of sad stories as well… and I too am very open and strong with my faith.. so YEP! I guess im a half country gal… ( im really laughing at myself )

The song that I am sooo loving right now is called, Barefoot Blue Jean Night ( besides the 4th verse ) is a great anthem for just feeling good, having no problems or concerns and just wanting to kick your shoes off and have a “barefoot blue jean night” …. its soo tempts you to just jump in the car and DRIVE ANYWHERE and let your hair blow in the wind!  Makes you feel like a bottle of LOVE! Trust me, you will like the song and the video, google it on youtube! ( you may not love it but its cute and fun ) use your imagination and just google it already! LOL

oh wait, here it is!! >>>>>

#teamjake!!! AND #barefootbluejeannight