Like really…. Like for real…. Like again JARED!!
Okay im sure that i am like number 12,234,767 via moms who want to strangle their kids for acting up and acting out at school!
ACTING UP – deliberating doing things, knit picking etc.
ACTING OUT – doing things because they do not know how to express how they are feeling inside etc.
umm.. at this point I need a psychological term for a kid WHO DOES BOTH!! I mean 630 am I am chatting with his teacher at school when I dropped him off then I think that I flipped out for like AN AMAZINGLY GOOD – SO NEEDED – SO WORTH IT 90 seconds!!!!
It felt good but then to chastize your kid for things that he already knows NOT TO DO…. ummm can be just a tad bit annoying…irritating and i was sooo over it!!
Then the more I kept telling him to practice sharing his feelings and it is okay for boys/ men to express themselves I DONT CARE WHAT YOU MAY HAVE HEARD but it is healthy!
After him crying, the teaching showing her frustration, me twirling my hair to keep my hands from choking my son and me saying the word prayer about 15 times…..
By the end of the little 630 to 650 meeting – Jared was HAPPY – the teacher was glad that we had ANOTHER talk – and I felt that we made some progress.
( LORD PLEASE HELP )
Okay Jared’s issues are – misses his 18 1/2 yr old siblings – does not have arelationship with the man who’s name is on his birth certifate and who the Webster’s Dictionary would call father – and his misses his grandfather – the one who he considered as his father.
So it is ALL centered around RELATIONSHIPS! UGGGHH – this too shall pass! We have been down this road before and God AS USUAL will help Jared once again!
Okay – woo -sighing for ” TODAY” is officially done!
Thanking GOD for direction, love and progress!