Hmmmm… I dont know why people are so into setting me up on a blind date and pushing me to do online dating… Welp, I have my own feeling that people online LIE…… they want to appear to be something that they are not. Granted it is not everyone I am sure… I have even read that a great deal of actresses and singers have went to online sites and have had major success stories…

Okay to PROVE my point to my friends I signed up and went onto a site and CLEARLY stated my interests short and sweet below:

 The Basics

  • · 5’3″ / 160 cm
  • · Female
  • · Black/African
  • · Average Build
  • · Divorced
  • · Has Children at home
  • · Advanced Degree
  • · Christian
  • · Doesn’t smoke
  • · Doesn’t drink


1. Skin color doesnt matter – Interracial Dating is Fine
2. I dont date those who smoke nor drink
3. Must have personal relationship with Jesus Christ
4. If MARRIED<<<< DO NOT contact me! Even if you are seperated, that means that you are STILL MARRIED-Thanks!

Perfect Match edit

There is no perfect match but 2 people who are different that are WILLING to making a Christian relationship work can be a match!



 War Movies ( 300 / Troy / Gladiator ) Drama ( Love Stories ( P.S. I Love You ) Documentaries ( Michael Moore ) Asian Flims ( The Curse of the Golden Flower )


 Biographies, ( U.S.Presidents, Italian and Russian Political Leaders ) Political, ( Bill Clinton, Juan Williams) Bill Cosby – Come on PeopleSPORTS / Football
Baltimore Ravensand Pittsburgh SteelersSPORTS / Baseball
Philadelphia Phillies

Now after that quick info.. I have gotten over 100 emails wanting to talk to me more via email or telephone…


I was so furious! My buddies are looking through the pictures of the guys that reached out to me and they could not understand why I was being so up tight.


Well while they were looking at the PHOTOS of the men that were sending me messages…


I was quickly directing them to THEIR PROFILE INFORMATION!


I pointed out that it was very evident that NONE of the men even READ my profile information because everyone who contacted me had the following below:

1. married

2. seperated

3. smokes socially

4. drinks socially

5. atheist or Catholic

So they ONLY viewed my photo and did not take the time to read ABOUT ME…. so there you have it.. no online dating sites for me! I am glad that I PROVED MY POINT TO THEM!!!

The wait is long but I will wait on the Lord because He surely has waited on me to get myself together… I will wait to see what He has prepared for me!

” Lord dont take too much longer please”….. LOL