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Longggg BUT Good Day


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One word folks…… #Exhausted………. Nonetheless, Boy did God bless my mother AND I on today…….. Our last few weeks have been a bit ” challenging…. to say the least ” BUT we have managed to remain overcomers in Christ Jesus –

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Oh it’s soo amazingly nice to be friends with people for years and you see each other off and off but when you do, its like YOU NEVER skipped a beat! Oh how I loved BOTH of these women of God…women of Virtue! Sis. Lorraine is a nice size piece of my past that gives me strength everytime that I see her – She is truly one of God’s special people…

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I absolutely adore BOTH of these ladies and thank the Lord that they both have taught ME a multitude of things….

The mental blessings that I obtained on today has once again shifted me onto another path……

Gratefully Blogged…..

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Celebrating MY Son – “Jared”….


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For ME, you’re more than Superman, Batman, Jedi, Anakin Skywalker, Iron Man and all the other superheroes of the world. You’re our very own Super Boy Jared!!!! – Actually you are MY SUPER BOY!
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Try not to waste this year too!!! You keep me busy all year round so pick a few months to stay productive! LOL May this new year of your life, bring in more wisdom, more self-love and more happiness in your life.
May you get all the happiness in world that your heart can “presently hold” and May God bless you abundantly.  I can never thank God enough for giving me a son like you.
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MY Love Muffin, You’re not just a handsome face, but you are even blessed with a pure heart. When you were born, I held you in my arms and I whispered a small thank you to God for gifting me a star….. ( I was crying when you were born and you took all of those tears away….. ) Mommy wishes you have a year filled with lots of success. May all your hard work pay off….  

Alright boy, see you in a few hours! LOL

My Son and His Glad Heart!


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My son and this man has always shared a special bond….. It is so imperative that men REGARDLESS of what age, have male role models, male mentors, male inspired people in their lives……

Being able to share priceless moments is a blessing and my son appreciates all the male mentors in his life. Besides another male mentor that is in his life, no one can bring a smile to his face like this man.

We actually even talked about no matter what community event or church function we are at and he sees him, he becomes ax excited young man. I told him that I know he indeed loves his father, but he does NOT SMILE, GIGGLE, CHUCKLE, GET EXCITED the same way when he is with his father v.s. this man.

My son met him about 5 -6 years ago and he loved him from day one and my son said to me today that he can tell that he has a good relationship with God. I said yes baby, he is special and has a great deal of characteristics that people just don’t see nor experience anymore from men in ministry.

He said he wish that his father had the same type of Jesus on him!!!! I tried MY BEST to keep my facial expressions together but inside I did know AND UNDERSTAND what my son was speaking about. It is not always about how much time a person spends with my son rather than the impact of what is done for him in the time is spent with him.

Of course I never have or ever will speak harshly about his father to him but kids ARE VERY HONEST about their feelings!! What they see as well as what they feel!!! My son is an Old Soul anyway…

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Anyway, this Pastor / Bishop is a very nice……kind ….caring man of God who engages my son’s mind, soul and spirit and I am grateful that their connection was tactfully started years ago and is still very magnetic to my son from the moment he sees him.

This Bishop surely loves people and has a heart for REAL MINISTRY and he carries the scent of compassion that it’s soooooooooooo contagious!!!

Helping Others….


If you don’t ask the right questions…you can never discover the answers which will move your life in the direction of possibility and purpose. What’s the ONE (?) question that you are holding yourself accountable to answer with your life choices today?
A great deal of people think that age ALWAYS plays a huge part in how individuals react to negative circumstances but that is not the case. It is imperative that we all, NO MATTER WHAT THE AGE have “accountability partners” to help direct us and keep our actions / motives / choices in tact.
“Are you the cause or the effect? Are you the engine or the caboose? Are you making history or watching history be made? Are you the one everyone is talking about or one of those doing the talking? Are you the thermostat or the thermometer? I love to teach these types of strategies to others who may fell that they are  in a tight spot and they need to know that hope is right around the corner. I can say this due to MY OWN crazy and heart wrenching experiences over the years….
Your life has an special purpose that only you can fulfill. It’s not a game….it’s your life. Take a leap of faith and move forward as if you could not fail. State your daily goals, and create forward momentum in your life.
Every day affirm to yourself that there is no emotion that you cannot handle, no difficulty that you cannot surmount, and no challenge that you cannot tackle. Face the future confidently – knowing that you were born for such a time as this!
Are you making things happen or waiting to see what happens? It is your life…play big but safe!”

Good Day!


Any time that  you can do ” what thus sayeth the Lord” is indeed a good day right???  Well spending time with individuals who desire to learn and become a better woman, a better mother, a better wife, a better sister, a better friend, a better Christian and just an overall better person to function within society is just the motivation that keeps me going.

Helping people is like second nature because it is not only a desire, not only how I was raised / groomed but it is a HUGE attribute of Christ!!

You do NOT have to place a title on the things that you do for people……Just do it and have a GOOD DAY!

No need to call yourself a Mentor  or Life Coach << new term that drives me just a TAD BIT BONKERS! Whatever happened to people just doing things to be NICE or just to teach them with NO STRINGS attached? Help someone out without expecting anyting in return or telling anyone of “your supposedly good works” and have a GOOD DAY!

Ugghh….