Inspiration

Before June 2013


I have indeed planned to visit all of these places before June 2013….. I will…I can and I must…

Solo me falta NYC =/

I have lived in so many states… that picking up and going is surely not an option for me. I like to think of myself maybe as a cavalier so to speak… Pick and go..Pick up and move in an INSTANT!

I have talked and shared LONG stories with people who have traveled…..relocated a few times as well as people who have NEVER lived outside of the same state, never traveled or even driven across the county borders of their municiplalities….. and I HAVE TO TELL YOU that the mind sets are conversations are totatlly different! I wish that EVERYONE would desire to shift their life just a little because the world is not only a big place but it is indeed HUGE / MASSIVE!

Explore it so that you can enjoy it…..BEFORE you die off this earth!

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Dear ( ME )

Wishful Thinking –


I have ALWAYS desired to go to the UK… and until I get there – here’s to London Dreams! This is one of the countries that I have considered relocating too in the past – but as you know the story…..my son was helping me clean out of closets… a little Spring cleaning – and he ACCIDENTIALLY threw out our passports that was enclosed inside of the manilla envelopes! Well, I will relocate…. ” soon enough ” So I am “sorta – kinda” patiently waiting…. LOL

Relationships

Distance Can Be Your Friend….


Distance for some loved ones is what is needed to maintain at least a satisfatory relationship……for some people it is good to stay in contact by way of technology…..you are not too close and not too far but there is a way that you can always stay in touch with one another..if need be

However, Loving a few people from a distance and give them the space and time that is needed so that they can get their minds right….their actions right…their motives right before you allow them back into your life… Again it is our individual choice / decision whom we let enter our lives….

Forget the slogan of reason…season and lifetime… sometimes there are people who do not even FIT at all and we still try to “find a space for them” or a nice cozy undeserving slot… why do it if we know FROM THE BEGINNING that they do not belong in your life….let alone NEAR US?

I am sure that we all have been there….. but the difference is that I STOPPED it.. now it is your turn!! Stop letting people enter who are not welcomed!

Thinking of my buddy Phil ( for single and married couples ) and all of his great wisdom right now….. much love my friend!

Helping Self...

Timing-


Geesh!, It has been forever since I have been on –  but I have been so busy that I could hardly almost focus some days! Soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much has been going on and I am STILL trying to figure out what to do “with it all”…….There is never enough time in the day or I am just trying to do just way too- too too much!

Whether I am Relocating or just moving to a different neighborhood, it seems to always be like a mini major mile stone!  The only thing that keeps me coming in and out of Pennsylvania is my mother – nothing more and nothing less…. There are other siblings but no one “looks after her” like I do and she knows that as well. So eventually moving to either one of those two coutnries that I used to blog about for months will have to be placed on hold.

 

Nonetheless, always “jumping in and out of the car” and going from state to state is something that seems to be very tiresome but it something that I will continue to do “for my mom”…. In no way, shape or form am I trying to kill her off or wish her dead but I will certainly stay close to Pennsylvania driving distance as long as she is alive!

I have visited New Jersey and loved a great deal of the areas like Alpine! Whew Jesus, is it so beautiful there!!! I have been going back and forth via the Maryland, Virginia and D.C. area for the last few years and it takes a TOLL on the body! It is so amazing that my son manages to have NEVER missed a day of school and I am grateful for that! He is so amazing… he does not care how often we just get up and go as long as he is with me he seems to stay happy! LOL

Oh also, as long as one of his friends gets to tag along as well, he stays busy with activities and he gets to see his grandmother every week he has no complaints! ( thank God )

Dear ( ME )

Lord HELP – LOL


Just to think, I have family that lives in Alabama…… Arizona and California and they want me to move there! I am crying with the temperatures via where I live NOW!! San Diego, California may be my ONLY HOPE! LOL

I have one whole year to get my choices together via where I am moving to ” again” LOL…. Nonetheless, it will not be anywhere that the sun has the audacity to be this hot! Right when I was getting myself together to move out of the country, and then a slight little PAUSE happened….

Yeah, I am taking that as that was the Lord saying either NO or not NOW… I am still waiting……  when I instill change in my life – it must be drastic… so I will continue waiting………….   >> semi – patiently <<<

Helping Self...

the pleasures of #home


As much as I used to always complain about moving.. THERE IS REALLY NO PLACE LIKE HOME!  Having the pleasure of living in 3 different states and traveling to several cities gave me a taste of another life than my hometown…. The city is great for family…  and is growing in the area of racial equality…..

Sometimes I miss engaging in family-oriented evenings! Back home it gives me the opportunity to spend time with siblings, my mommy and children. I have appreciated the opportunity to share emotions and important life events that while offering support to other family members as well. Understanding the importance of an evening at home with the family allows us all to make the most of the time we have been blessed to spend together.Whenever I am out of town whether visiting family and friends, on a quick much needed vacation break or I have relocated again….. it is funny because when I see FAMILIAR areas I get happy to be back home! Regardless how I feel about being “home”…..I feel the most safe when I am in good ole’ Pennsylvania and I see these types of signs on the interstate!