Relationships

A Great Part of My Day


Was taking a break in the mall and sitting in a chair trying to get my MASTER PLAN together so I would be focused and not OVER SPEND as usual! Lo and behold, here walks in my niece whom I have not seen in ummmmm….. I shall not say how long it has been but ……..It’s wonderful when you KNOW you have a few folk who love you for “REAL”…No strings attached, no hidden agendas or motives…they love you for you, with all your faults, &  all your idiosyncrasies because they see the “essence” of who you are, and you can be “just plain ol’ you” with them, without all the “stuff”…Man, true LOVE from true FOLKS is an awesome thing…deeeep siiiiiigh… Seeing her REALLY made my whole weekend worth staying in my tri- state area! Grateful to see her and blessed to share and swap stories of LIFE and knowing that we have and had shared a great deal of similarities was just astonishing…..

We laughed..talked…..I cried….we hugged….we paused in silenced…we flirted..we cracked jokes…we mini complained and lifted up Jesus!

yeah – I am talking about my lovely niece  and she is an amazing 26 year old young woman who loves God….shopping….family…music…cats…ME and LIFE!

There are a few people who I KNOW loves me without a million questions that I  must ask first…. what am I doing these days… where have I been etc.. they are just glad to see me and that I am doing AMAZING!……

OKAY – the moral to this quick blog is to tell you to ……enjoy people who desire to enjoy you back!

 

 

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Family

Nephews – are great!


I’VE WATCHED YOU GROW THROUGH OUT THE YEARS
I’VE WATCHED YOU LAUGH AND I’VE WIPED YOUR TEARS
YOU’VE TOLD ME UR SECRETS AND I HAVE TOLD YOU MINE
THE RELATIONSHIPE WE HAVE IS ONE OF A KIND


I’LL BE YOUR SHOULDER WEN YOU NEED TO CRY
I’LL TELL YOU THE TRUTH I PROMISE I WILL NEVER LIE
I’LL HOLD YOUR HAND AND WE’LL GET THROUGH EVERYTHING TOGETHER
I LOVE YOU NOW AND I’LL LOVE YOU FOREVER
YOU SAVED MY LIFE WHEN I WAS DOWN AND OUT


YOU HAVE MADE ME REALIZE WHAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT
I KNOW IM NOT YOUR MOM BUT BELIVE ME WHEN I SAY
I HOPE MY SON AND I HAVE A RELATIONSHIP THIS VERY SAME WAY…

Family

Wednesday evening fun!


 

 There is a time when I wouldnt have thought that family would be the ONLY support system that I would have…. We all have gone through some aspect of our lives with more friends than we could ever imagine and could really even keep up with……

However, when you are not able to keep up in number then that usually means that you need to re evaluate and realize that you have too many….  God is love and allowing him to place those important people in my life has help nurtured me in so many areas…

this evening i went home changed my clothes and grabbed my 9 1/2 year old to go house hopping with friends and family and he didnt want to come but he asked to be dropped off at his church instead… which i can understand because the church that he attends is indeed amazing via their kids ministry. Too bad the church that I would like to attend dOes not have one……they dont have enough male presence there as well unfortunately……

I dropped my little old man off at church and sped away!! LOL

these two little munchins are my little nephews…. the one on the right is my blood nephew and the one on the left is my nephew’s best friend Mike, so he is also family…. Just being able to go somewhere and let my hair down in PEACE gives me an “” ahhh moment”….

These two boys I am so elated to say are not, have not and will not be an American Statistic…. They both attend college, have a job, live with their parents, are respectful to their parents and are Christian boys. In 2012 that is to be indeed applauded.

 APPRECIATING FAMILY IS WHAT I WILL ALWAYS DO…..

Family

family moment


I had a VERY nice time with my another part of my family today….. it was such a REFRESHING time for all of us that we all shed tears! LOL

My nephews Isaiah and Lamar are such darlings!! They are soo precious and you can tell how their behavior blesses their own parents… their mom and dad has been through one rough patch for about 10 years! Then currently going through another one BUT GOD!!!! Fellowship is something that we all need and it can make a break our own mental state and ability to deal with others.

I cant wait to have a fun filled weekend with my little nephews in a few days! Movies, dinner, video games and snacks!!!! Everyone knows that I LOVE little boys and im excited to be able to give his parents a “night off” so that they can be a married couple instead of parents 24 hours a day. It is so important for couples to always make sure that they also maintain their OWN SPARK and I am obliged to assist my sister and brother in that area! Well with both Ron and Nikki being such good siblings also helps out as well! LOL

Now of course I know that this gives Jared a chance to have and be a BIG BROTHER like he always wanted! LOL …. Jared has asked me about adopting a younger brother or sister for over the past year and a half now… I told him if we did adopt, that it would MOST CERTAINLY be a boy and not a girl…  However he changes his mind from time to time then states that he wants a big brother!…. Which he already has an 18 1/2 year old brother and sister but niether of them come around to see about him so go figure!

Welp, speaking of BIG BROTHERS and all! 

 

Do you see my brother Ron above wearing that HORRID Pittsburgh Steeler jersey??? YIKES!! I tried to buy him and my little nephews a SPECTACULAR BALTIMORE RAVENS JERSEY >>>>>>      Ed Reed Jersey: Reebok Purple Replica #20 Baltimore Ravens Jerseybut it didnt work! LOL