Relationships

Random Relationship Thought – “s”


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Relationships are often stressful and require a lot of effort to make them  successful. Friendships can sometimes become toxic and unhealthy to one or both  people involved. Letting go of unpleasant or unhealthy friendships can be very  difficult but is a vital step to improving overall quality of life, reduce  stress and possibly improve self-esteem. Once a friendship becomes more effort than  what it’s worth, letting that friend go is better done sooner than  later.
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Focus on yourself, improve yourself and work towards a better version of who you are at the moment. The only person that you should change is you. If you live with someone who is difficult, or even if you just spend some time with them, take each time you interact with them as a new experience.

One of the most powerful things you can do is simply change how you view that difficult person. Maybe after you put yourself in their shoes, or learn that you are also a bit like them, you might find that they are not that difficult after all. Don’t let your first impressions be the only ones you have. And don’t waste your time trying to change anyone, instead, use that time and energy to improve who you are.
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In the end we all just WANT PEACE right?? I personally have wasted too much time over the years of maintaining relationships that were DEAD for a long time….. Thank goodness for God’s revelation right!
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I pray that you be still long enough to realize that SPRING CLEANING does not have to happen in the SPRING!! For me, it is a weekly thing and I feel lighter and lighter and it is an overwhelming POSITIVE EXPERIENCE in my life…. try it for yourself and see!

However, these things will ONLY work if you want to restore the relationships………. ALSO understand that in all honesty, all relationships are NOT meant to be restored…… In the end, it is about self love – and what YOU KNOW what is best for you…..

# until next time…..

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Relationships

Quick Men – Random


Dear Respectable Godly Men –

I am just a tad bit tired of hearing women complaining on a constant basis on how their GODLY boyfriends. fiance’s and husbands treat them….. Last time I checked, a few parts of your role is to Protect her, fight for her, kiss her, love her, hold her, laugh with her. If she may fall, catch her!

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Don’t make her fall, if you don’t plan to catch her & lift her up! Men LOVE your woman! A man has two options in a RELATIONSHIP:

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Sincerely men, either stand up and be the MAN she NEEDS in her life
or PLEASE just SIT DOWN, so she can SEE the MAN behind him!

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THANKS A BUNCH FOR LISTENING!!!!!

Relationships

One of My Favorites!


Although the song is more so focused towards a relationship and we all have had some type of relationship in our lives that had went terribly super duper sour……. However with this song as well as the lyrics – my mind started to float a totally different way! LOL

I have thought of this song in regards to fixing my FAMILY’S ISSUES –  Via my brothers and sisters…from the oldest to the youngest, GEESH!! I swear that everyone is SO DIFFERENT that I wonder if all will be HEAVEN sent again!! Yes, and I even ask God to FIX ME as well…

This song is really heart felt and simply beautiful and one of my favorites. ( I love Coldplay )

HOWEVER, no one can ” FIX YOU ” but Christ…. and even God does not force us to be a certain way – HE allows us to choose to be!! Just as the simply put lyrics stated…. ” Lights will guide you home ” and Jesus is indeed The Ultimate Light…  So don’t lose your way!

#Godrocks  #GodISLove

Inspiration

Dissatisfaction Random


We’ve been taught to believe that dissatisfaction is a bad thing, and that we should do everything possible to avoid it. Shove it down. Ignore it. Act like it doesn’t bother us. Take a pill. Plaster on a smile. Buy something new, or decide that misery is part of “bearing our cross.” But above all, don’t consider that God might be using it to make us uncomfortable so we’ll want to swim in another ocean where our gifts can shine.

Don’t get me wrong; dissatisfaction can be a result of spiritual warfare (Eph. 6:10-12) and not an indication that we are out of God’s will. But it can also be a road sign that He has another purpose for us.

So if you’re miserable in your current career or job, (and you have been for a long time), you’ve prayed, sought counsel from others, looked for guidance through Scripture, and you’re still miserable, consider that God may have another plan.