Relationships

Online Foolishness


LET ME TELL YOU WHY THIS PICTURE IS FOR REAL!

I was with a girl pal of mine and we both was online and she set up a profile page for me… Now I told you guys a few weeks ago why online dating “is not my thing” There was this guy who reached out to me… and I was like he probably dont even dress like that because the profile photo was in a business suit and all of his others were “hood / street” clothing.. which is a HUGE NO – NO for me! I dont care if it is online….off line..in the grocery store…at the mall…at church – REGARDLESS!

Well she started replying to him “for me” and he turned out to be a HORRID liar and she was soo appalled and upset because he said in an email that he was a producer and sent links to his work and 2 of them were documentaries and she is like see…. he seems to be ok. I told her that ANYONE who is about anything would NOT give out so much information about themselves up front so quickly…

But moving right along with the SILLY but so REAL story…..I said he is trying to be too cocky or maybe presenting his information so that he can be seen as a legit person maybe.. BUT I still dont trust he is all put together like he is trying to present… So he sent one more link stating this was another project that he did….

( of course I already deleted my picture and account info and made her promise she would NEVER do nothing like this again….)

At that moment I told my friend that he is NOT LEGIT and she was like you are soo against meeting people online…I said no – it is all about PRESENTATION!! I was trying to explain to her if the guy was STEPHEN SPIELBERG, TYLER PERRY or RON HOWARD they would not be sending links of their work at all because they would want to see if the woman is interested in them rather than their money – fame and success…. She still thought that I was being too judgemental…..

 

Lo and behold..we opened the last link that the fake producer sent and it was a very CHEAP – LOW BUDGET – SEMI PORN GANGSTER FLICK!!!

I laughed so hard while she fussed and almost cussed at the computer! ……

So now do you see why the photo in this picture is VALID IN MY BOOK!!!! LOL

I told her to  stop-sign trying to HURRY me along to be with someone – Wisdom tells me when to say YES or NO!

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Dear ( ME )

Today


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The decision to ask God for His help is MY greatest source of #wisdom, strength and courage!!

That is my thought for the moment but my standard for life…..

Today was a really mellow, productive and relaxing and the flow is indeed blessing me.

I feel very loved and appreciated right through here and it feels nice.

I was chatting with a girl pal a few hours ago and she was sharing her dating story with me and to say the least……it was yet another interesting event!!

We talked about on line dating again and then I realized that no matter what avenue it is via dating that what is suppose to be, will be! (Regardless how it comes )

I am not against blind dates or the online dating concept……However dishonesty and lack of integrity I am against but sometimes you cannot obtain some clues until the (chatting) actually transpires!

I totally FORGOT the whole purpose of this initial blog but at least I had a good day!

Peace….Love….Loyalty and Honor

V.D. Coleman