Dear ( ME )

MINISTRY – Note 2 Self….


“Never underestimate the power of dreams and the influence of the human spirit. We are all the same in this notion: The potential for greatness lives within each of us.”

My LIFE is so bigger than “me”……. the things that I do…don’t do…the things that I say or even dont say etc…etc….

One reason why some of the ones that you have given to, poured into, helped and ministered to are not the same ones who are there for you now, is because  the were not your friends, but your assignment.

You can not build a relationship or set up a friendship in the “natural” off an assignment that is “spiritual.”


The Little Things in Life

A smile costs nothing, but gives much………It enriches those who receive, without making poorer those who give. It takes but a moment, but the memory of it sometimes lasts forever. None is so rich or mighty that he can get along without it, and none is so poor, but that he can be made rich by it.

A Smile creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in business, and is the countersign of friendship…….It brings rest to the weary, cheer to the discouraged, sunshine to the sad, and it is nature’s best antidote for trouble.

Yet it cannot be bought, begged, borrowed, or stolen, for it is something that is of no value to anyone, until it is given away. Some people are too tired to give you a smile; Give them one of yours, as none needs a smile so much as he who has no more to give.


Girl Pals

The merits of female friendships are pretty well-established. Not least of which, who else will give you an honest opinion about your new hairstyle? However, many women find that their friendship circle shrinks as they get older. The pressures of parenting, work and spouses can leave little time for female bonding.

Cherish the old…….. Pray about the new…… and welcome what else God has in store for your life!

Many of us take friendships for granted. But lasting relationships provide more than someone to lean on when the going gets tough. In addition to the emotional benefits, camaraderie actually boosts your physical health. ( yes…being happy can IMPROVE your health )

However, remember that Friends are like Novocaine…… eventually you will see if the friendship like the dental medicine, is strong enough to deal with the pain that you SHALL / WILL endure!


Circle of Care

Everyone should have a circle of friends…a circle of loved ones… a circle of family members….  a circle of prayer partners etc..etc..etc.

Understand that this circle SHOULD NOT look how YOU think that it should look like or even be like if you are asking GOD TO DO IT….. We never know who we will need in life and also why LIMIT what God wants for you? There are soo soo many other people who have walked where you are PRESENTLY trying to go! Therefore, why not be open to what God has for you….wants for you….desires for you and most importantly >>>>CREATED FOR YOU!

Fellowship and Friendship goes together!! So remeber that HELP- LOVE and FRIENDSHIP  comes in all different colors, sizes and ages!


New – Old – Smile

Make new friends, but keep the old; Those are silver, these are gold. New-made friendships, like new wine, Age will mellow and refine. Friendships that have stood the test – Time and change – are surely best; Brow may wrinkle, hair grow gray, Friendship never knows decay.

For ‘mid old friends, tried and true, Once more we our youth renew. But old friends, alas! may die, New friends must their place supply.

Cherish friendship in your breast- New is good, but old is best; Make new friends, but keep the old; Those are silver, these are gold.

Smile,smile and smile smile a smile that travels a mile…
smile a smile because it takes only a moment But the memory of it lasts forever…
smile a smile that worries of tomorrow sink into And hope brings a way to have a lucky day…
smile a smile when somebody hurts you For a smile is a balm that is ever healing….
smile a smile like you mean it so that the fake smile you offer fades away…
smile a smile because it can do wonders A smile can help you out of some blunders…
smile with immense glow, smile with joy for it is an expression that makes an impression…
Smile for the people in the world Because the world needs people who can smile…

Smile,smile and smile because it is just better than quitting…



Friendship is lovely

Friendship is needed

Friendship is wanted

Friendship is cherished

Friendship is Godly

Friendship is exciting

Friendship is necessary

Friendship is worth it

Value the relationships that are in your life BUT ALSO respect the fact that all relationships are not everlasting either! Nonetheless, capture the moment – respect the path and enjoy the process.

Friendship is a blessing it’s the best you have to share, The talents and the wisdom, the capacity to care… It’s being there to lend support, whatever needs arise, It’s making sure that others know they’re special in your eyes…

Friendship is a blessing, and, to all who have a friend, It’s one of the most precious gifts that life could ever send!


New Friendships

Finding New friends isn’t really too difficult, however, finding true friends who will remain loyal and trustworthy, is something that can be very hard. Friends bring us a lot of enjoyment, happiness and good times.

Friends help when we are feeling low or feeling down. They can help to bring us out of a bad mood and inspire and give us hope. A life without friends would be very dull, boring and unfulfilling.

New friends can bring excitement, great conversation, fresh opinions and fresh outlooks on life.

The enthusiasm of a New friend can be uplifting and enlighten us. New friends can help introduce us to New things and other people. Friends are great to socialize with and draw our attention to New interests and hobbies.

There’s nothing as nice as someone who shares, your laughter, your secrets, your wishes and cares, someone who’s there through your good times and tears, who stays by your side as your friend through the years.

The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, nor the kindly smile, nor the joy of companionship; it’s the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when they discovers that someone else believes in them and is willing to trust whole heartedly.

We must simply always remember that friendships are GIFTS.