Today’s Inspiration 4 Women –


Many women struggle with self-image and insecurity. Some women have based their self-worth around taking care of their family. Others base it on their looks, and they will go to extreme measures to try and measure up with that level of what men or society says is acceptable…….
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They’ve lost touch with their true identity because they look for others to tell them how they look or how they feel. So there are a lot of women out there who are insecure in their relationships.

They don’t feel as though they are good enough, and I believe that has everything to do with self-image and early mental conditioning. When women have abdicated their own identity to what others think and say, they tend to be very insecure in their relationships.

They pick the wrong men for all the wrong reasons. They “settle” because they don’t feel as though they are good enough to have a really terrific guy.

Until we take responsibility for everything in our life, good and bad decisions, it is difficult to escape feelings of helplessness and hopelessness. The good news is if you want to change, you can. Where there is a will, there is a way.

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Traits of A Gossiper


First and foremost – if you are PLEASE STOP IT! You are worth more than the SILLY TIME that you are spending disrupting the lives of other people who clearly and obviously was NOT thinking of you –

When people are feeling bad about themselves, they sometimes think they’ll feel better if there were someone worse off than they are. It’s like, it’s okay being near the bottom, as long as they’re not actually on the bottom. The easiest way for them to make sure someone else is on the bottom is to make up a rumor that puts him or her there.

To feel like part of the group
If everybody else is gossiping or spreading rumors, you might feel you have to do the same thing in order to fit in. When you’re “in on the secret,” you’re in the group. Unfortunately, the person who the gossip or rumor is about is usually left out of the group for the same reason that you’re let into it.

 

For attention
When you know a secret that nobody knows, or are the first person in your group to hear a rumor, it can make you the center of attention. A rumor or piece of gossip is sometimes like money; telling it to people is like buying their attention, if only for a few minutes. You might even save up a really scandalous rumor, waiting for the right moment to blab so you get the greatest amount of attention
for it.

Out of boredom
This has to be the #1 reason people spread rumors! They are bored and have nothing PRODUCTIVE going on in their OWN LIVES.  Sometimes, a period where everyone is happy and getting along just seems kind of-dull. Spreading juicy dish might shake things up a bit, or get two people to start a fight, and that would make life a little more exciting. All those tabloid newspapers and TV shows full of celebrity gossip are pure proof that rumors are a popular form of entertainment.

For control or power
Certain people always want to be in control and at the top of the latter. You probably know at least one person who needs to be the leader, say what goes, and make all the decisions. When people are at the top of the popularity scale, or are determined to climb higher, one way they do this is by reducing the “status” of another person. Spreading rumors and gossip is one of the main ways people cut another person’s status, especially among girls. It’s like one caveman beating up another caveman for control of the tribe-only it’s done with cruel whispers and petty remarks instead of fists.

Out of jealousy or a need for revenge
If you’re jealous of someone’s looks, popularity, or money, you might gossip about that person to hurt him or her. If you feel that someone’s done something bad to you, or deserves to be hurt, making up a rumor might satisfy your sense of justice.

Now, if you have ANY traits of this then you have to just admit that you indeed are a gossiper….

It is okay, because now you can “Get a Life”…. and work on it!

Just For TODAY –


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Blessed Quietness –
 
When was the last time you experience quietness? We spend life always rushing everywhere we go. People love to multi-task try just doing one thing at a time. The next time you’re eating just eat don’t do anything else.
 
today…..Try going home without putting on a computer, t.v. or any other device. Spend an hour just listening to Blessed Quietness. We are living so fast and always thinking about another day.
 
We can’t enjoy this day. Don’t borrow trouble from another day! Just be thankful for today! Now if you can practice this for TODAY, then you can continue to make it habitual in your daily living –  Can you do it? >>  Re structuring

A Crutch Needs To Be Appreciated More Often!


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A “crutch” is only used when a person needs support. It helps them to walk if they have a sprung or broken leg, ankle or foot. After a person heals from that injury, they no longer rely or need that “crutch.” The crutch no longer has a purpose, therefore it loses it’s value.
 
The crutch is placed in a closet, corner, basement or attic. No one ever really goes back to that crutch to say thank you or… even appreciate it for supporting them. When you become an enabler and a crutch to others, the same thing may happen to you and that relationship.
 
When the person that you were there for finally gets back on their feet, they may forget about you. But it is harder to forget the “Bridge” that you brought you over. Stop being a crutch, and start being a bridge.

Dear African Americans…..


Just VOTE please… what else do you have to do that would orevent you from doing at least ONE of your civic duties? I  mean like seriously…

NO excuses like you are tired, you forgot, you could not get a ride, you did not feel like waiting in line, you did not have time… and the list goes on! JUST VOTE, your voice is your vote and too many have been silent for too long…. UGGGGHHH… Your vote counts and surely does matter… not just in this election but EVERY ELECTION!

 

I am done venting – ( thanks for listening / reading )

Finish


Finish each day and be done with it…. Realize that the day is over or at least is coming to a close! ( an end ) Whatever happened – has happened and whatever that was suppose to happen – did not happen for “whatever reason”

Learn not to take your failures to bed and refrain from keeping your bed a cemetary! YES! Some blunders and obscurities have found a way to creep into your day and have shifted some things for the worse… but MOVE ON because you have another day to plan for! Remember that the key here is to reflect on what was and move on because staying mentally in the past is dangerous AND NOT prosperous!

You have an opportunity to FINISH your day strong! – ” dont blow it again”…..