Women's Stuff

Is Thuggish the NEW Gay ?


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Like can ANYONE advise me on what is REALLY going on with all of the OUTBREAK of this type of behavior…. I know that there are gay men in EVERY CULTURE / ETHNIC GROUP but it has been an OPENLY TABOO for blacks…..let alone the black man – So to even see this has me throwing up EVEN AS I AM TYPING at this very moment……. Thug is the new black maybe?  Hope Not…

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I mean REALLY………… you cannot tell me that you are not shocked seeing the thugged up…..tatted up…urban looking ….sagging and drooping pants wearing men being seen in ” this interesting light “……………

ARE there ANY single…… STRAIGHT…… Heterosexual….STRAIGHT….. men LEFT  These Days?  KEY WORD >>>>>>>>>>> STRAIGHT just like this line _________________________________________ !!!!!  uuggghhhh –

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Helping Self...

That Random “F – Word” Again….


F – O – R – G – I – V- E – N – E – S – S

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Forgiving somebody means that you no longer hold anger or resentment toward a person who has offended or wronged you. Once you do this, you should resume the normal relationship you had with that person before the event occurred. Forgetting is, of course, when you no longer remember what happened. This is the act of “letting it go” or “moving on.” When you finally forget, you no longer associate the person with the offense.
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Forgiving a person and forgetting that person did to you is the only way you can resume a normal relationship with that person. Being able to do this is also a way to build personal character. Nobody is perfect, after all, and there will eventually come a time when you wrong somebody else. You’ll want that person to forgive you and forget what you did when that time comes.

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Forgiving and forgetting is important in most religions as well. For example, Christianity teaches that God will not forgive you for your sins if you cannot forgive people when they hurt you.
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You may not forget that you were wounded, but not focusing on the wound can allow you to forget that the real wound is healing without you even realizing it.

The next time you look up you may recognize that INDEED you do have a SCAR to show that “it did happen” but it will no longer be an issue……… ( MATURITY ) ……it takes time but can be done.

Parenting

To My Baby –


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When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw you hang my first painting on the refrigerator, and I wanted to paint another one.

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw you feed a little bird, and I thought it was good to be kind to animals.

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw you make my favorite snack for me,
and I knew that little things are special things.

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I heard you say a prayer, and I believed there is a God I could always talk to.

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I felt you kiss me goodnight, and I felt loved.

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw tears come from your eyes,
and I learned that sometimes things hurt, but it’s all right to cry.

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When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw that you cared and I wanted to be everything that I could be.

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I looked…and wanted to say thanks for all the things I saw when you thought I wasn’t looking.

Ministry

Ministry Random –


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While we are getting caught up on titles and positions, what is your relationship like with God?  Ooooh we have the FORMS down pack but there is no power and this make shift stuff will not work.

We can call out everything and everyone, now turn around and pull the sword out on yourself and die to  your own selfish ways and truly have a heart to heart talk with God!

Relationships

My Son and His Glad Heart!


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My son and this man has always shared a special bond….. It is so imperative that men REGARDLESS of what age, have male role models, male mentors, male inspired people in their lives……

Being able to share priceless moments is a blessing and my son appreciates all the male mentors in his life. Besides another male mentor that is in his life, no one can bring a smile to his face like this man.

We actually even talked about no matter what community event or church function we are at and he sees him, he becomes ax excited young man. I told him that I know he indeed loves his father, but he does NOT SMILE, GIGGLE, CHUCKLE, GET EXCITED the same way when he is with his father v.s. this man.

My son met him about 5 -6 years ago and he loved him from day one and my son said to me today that he can tell that he has a good relationship with God. I said yes baby, he is special and has a great deal of characteristics that people just don’t see nor experience anymore from men in ministry.

He said he wish that his father had the same type of Jesus on him!!!! I tried MY BEST to keep my facial expressions together but inside I did know AND UNDERSTAND what my son was speaking about. It is not always about how much time a person spends with my son rather than the impact of what is done for him in the time is spent with him.

Of course I never have or ever will speak harshly about his father to him but kids ARE VERY HONEST about their feelings!! What they see as well as what they feel!!! My son is an Old Soul anyway…

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Anyway, this Pastor / Bishop is a very nice……kind ….caring man of God who engages my son’s mind, soul and spirit and I am grateful that their connection was tactfully started years ago and is still very magnetic to my son from the moment he sees him.

This Bishop surely loves people and has a heart for REAL MINISTRY and he carries the scent of compassion that it’s soooooooooooo contagious!!!

Inspiration

My “Current” – Pick Me Up –


It is soooo great to “run into songs” that just makes you SMILE and gitty all inside….. I REALLY feel good this morning – My own inspiration on this morning…

Regardless how they sing this song – it makes me HAPPY!

Relationships

Having A “Bestie”……………


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I have TONS of acquaintances…… and maybe even more than that…..  the ones that I do have live in other states…. but in the area that I reside in HOWEVER – friends….TRUE AND GENUINE……. hmm I think that I have to get a moment to sit and think for a second…… ok im done! LOL
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When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender
hand.  The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our Powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.
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A loyal friend laughs at your jokes when they’re not so good, and sympathizes with your problems when they’re not so bad.  Yesterday brought the beginning, tomorrow brings the end, and somewhere in the middle we became the best of friends.
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A friend knows the song in my heart and sings it to me when my memory fails. Friendship isn’t a big thing – it’s a million little things.A true friend is one who thinks you are a good egg even if you are half-cracked.  ~ Friends ( my momma ) are kisses blown to us by Angels!!!

Love my momma………… and she is MY BESTIE!Best Friends Forever, Pink and Blue Glitter Graphics