Helping Self...

A Few Positive Nuggets


Life is a road that some try to get off of too quickly instead of staying the course and learn what needs to learned for their own Personal Process (s). Life is a beautiful thing and is something that plenty of people in the graveyard wish they could have back / again!!!

Change your thoughts, change your conversation and change your life…There may still be struggles but even those will be viewed as an opportunity for God to perform a miracle on your behalf..

Don’t go through life….but grow through life. Sometime in your journey you will outgrow some people. Don’t try to fix or repair them….just keep on growing and keep on going.

We should maintain a variety of friends or family members that have different outlooks on life than we do. We cannot and certainly should not be so narrow minded to think that we are always correct.

You will be shocked to know that regardless how smart we think that we are, there will be plenty of times in where we wol be wrong in several situations!!!

Finally, surround yourself with people who tell you that you are not alone and they are willing to walk with you as you transition to where God is taking you…There is strength in numbers…You are not alone…


Speaking Life To Your Kids……

Self-respect cannot be hunted.  It cannot be purchased.  It is never for sale. …..It cannot be fabricated out of public relations.  It comes to us when we are
alone, in quiet moments, in quiet places, when e suddenly realize that, knowing the good, we have done it; knowing the beautiful, we have served it; knowing the
truth we have spoken it.

Respect your efforts, respect yourself.  Self-respect leads to self-discipline and when you have both firmly under your belt, that’s real power! If you want to be respected by others the great thing is to respect yourself.  Only by that, only by self-respect will you compel others to respect you as well….

Lastly…… ( for the moment )  ……………….

It is the highest form of self-respect to admit our errors and mistakes and make ends for them.  To make a mistake is only an error in judgment, but to adhere
to it when it is discovered shows infirmity of character…


Pep Talk

God’s word is not just to be heard and repeated, it is to be breathed, lived, and emulated with each action….. TEACH / SHOW your kids how to live a holy life! Christianity is a lifestyle that cannot be subsituted by sugar coating or cookie cutting ideologies to make you feel good about ungodly choices!

I tell my son that God has given you’ve been given the innate power to shape your life…but you cannot just speak change, you have to LIVE change. Intent paired with action builds the bridge to success. You can’t just want it; you have to do it, live it…BE it! Success isn’t something you have, it’s something you DO and without God, NONE OF IT CAN BE / WILL BE DONE!

Once your mindset changes, everything on the outside will change along with it……You have been blessed with immeasurable power to make positive changes in your life! Never question the power of one! Throughout history it has been the actions of only one person who has in inspired the movement of change and YOU can be the “next one” who indeed starts the NEXT MOVEMENT!.