Women's Stuff

Good Girlfriends –


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Have you ever asked yourself if you a good person, and do you push the act of empowering strength to other women? What do you bring to the table in a good girlfriend relationship? A great deal of women think that they are not able to find and maintain good girlfriends… but guess what,, YOU CAN!

We all have our specific qualities and in a friendship, we must to have something that benefits the other person if we are to be of value. What is it that you provide? Dependability? An ear to listen? Good advice? Positive feedback?

We have all had a friend or two that may have a few negative qualities but you try to love them through thier process. Do not ever jump into the gossip rut or complaining trap or do you empower and boost women and cheer them on?
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If you find you’re not a positive influence on your friends, you can easily develop some skills to be more so. Keep in mind, if you have negative friends and you become more positive, they may take a while to catch on to the new, more positive you or may choose to leave the friendship. However, when you even meet new friends is a blessing when the spirit of UNITY is there

Women who gain attention by always complaining are unlikely to warm up to a positive-minded person. After all, being positive means taking responsibility for your choices, situation and life and this is completely opposite of what negative people do.
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Five great qualities to bring to the friendship table:

Dependability – Dependability is underrated. If you are a dependable friend with personal boundaries, you are priceless. Without personal boundaries, many dependable friends get taken advantage of.
Respect – Respect is earned, not aged into. If you respect your friends and what they stand for and it is mutual, your bonds will be stronger and more long lasting than others.
Positive Feedback – A realistic positive outlook and encouragement are two of the most powerful things you can give a friend in crisis.
Alternate Perspective – Looking at a situation from a different perspective is crucial to making good decisions. Helping a friend to do this is admirable.
Honesty – Honesty is not synonymous with agreement. Tough love is sometimes necessary in friendships and is appreciated by true friends.

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Inspiration

H-A-P-P-Y


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Happiness — it’s what we all strive to find and keep, even when it’s as elusive as ever. Nobody is happy all the time, but some people are definitely more fulfilled than others. Studies reveal that happiness has little to do with material goods or high achievement; it boils down to your outlook on life, the quality of your relationships, and basic amenities like good governance and community resources.

Look at the glass half-full instead of half-empty.  Now you have the opportunity to find a better one! Adjust your mentality so that, in everything that happens to you, there’s some kernel of good.

Think of your current situation (however hard it may be) and then think of how much harder some other people have it. Just be happy that you are not in that worse situation. Learn to enjoy your life!

 

 

Helping Self...

A Little Random – ness


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Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world. I don’t like myself, I’m crazy about myself. Do you want to meet the love of your life? Continue to Look in the mirror!!!!
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Our first and last love is – self-love WE ALL have to start and Plant our own garden (s) and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.  If you must love your neighbor as yourself, it is at least as fair to love yourself as your neighbor.

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Dont forget that Self-love seems so often unrequited……………If you aren’t good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone, since you’ll resent the time and energy you give another person that you aren’t even giving to yourself. The way you treat yourself sets the standard for others. To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance…..
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You must love yourself before  you love another. By accepting yourself and fully being what you are, your simple presence can make others happy.  The price of hating other human beings is loving oneself less…….. and how about you need to Love yourself instead of abusing yourself!!!!! Know that you are WONDERFULLY MADE!

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My Sunday Morning Ramble –


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I don’t know about you but life indeed is too precious to not honor Christ in your life!

Without Christ, there is actually no life……  Just as much as I cherish my son, God still wants to come FIRST in “my life” …..  in our lives.

Without Him there would be no me, no him and no us to blog about.  I mean, dont you want to have purpose? Experience purpose? See purpose? Enjoy purpose? Thank God for purpose? Live for purpose? If you don’t, then at least realize that YOU should! We ALL were made tactfully and strategically for purpose AND on purpose!

Your life…my life…..means something!!!!!!!!!!!!

Understanding as well as teaching my son that all of his choices have to be God Choices and not Good Choices because indeed there is a difference.

God choices are not temporal but Good choices are. I am not saying that good decision making is a bad ability to have but don’t you want your Good Choices / Good Decisions “to last”……….

Exactly!!!Therefore, with everything decision that needs to be made, including Christ will make all of the difference and make the outcome even Sweeter!

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Me – Myself and I


No longer do I allow my heart to break over silly things, situations and people who have clearly shown me that they need to be placed in the Sea of Unforgetfulness.

  • I am precious to me.
  • Being a woman makes me precious.
  • Because I am a woman I am strong.
  • I love myself.
  • My soul is strong.
  • I have inner strength.
  • I am worthy of great success.
  • I am capable of succeeding without feeling overwhelmed or unfulfilled.
  • I feel fulfilled and joyful.
  • I pursue my life’s purpose.
  • I embrace positive self-esteem.
  • I feel that my future looks bright.
  • I only have positive mental pictures.
  • I have an enthusiastic outlook on life.
  • I stand firmly in my belief in myself.
  • I am strong and secure.
  • I have the power to realize my goals.
  • I maintain my self-confidence in all times and places.
  • I am courageous and brave.
  • I have faith in God and in my actions.
  • I heal all issues affecting my self-confidence.
  • I care about what I think of myself.
  • My personality traits are endearing.
  • I am precious in the eyes of God.
  • I have wisdom to know what to change.
  • I am at peace with the world.
  • I have unique attributes and abilities because I am a woman.
  • I have power to love and be loved.
  • I can love without being in love.
  • I have power to choose my course in life.
  • I am proud of my body for what it is. ( ummm maybe not so! LOL ) 20 pounds to go!
  • I can accept myself for who I am.
  • I recognize and honor my talents, abilities, and skills.
  • I feel confident from the inside out.
  • I say positive things about myself to myself.
  • I love and approve of myself.
  • I feel radiant full of abundant energy and health.
  • I courageously become transparent to bless others.

#CHANGEisgood

Inspiration

Self Esteem 101


Self-esteem is your own personal view of yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally.  Everyone has a different view of themselves, but keeping a positive outlook will benefit you more than a negative one.  Many individuals suffer from low self-esteem for a variety of reasons and need to build their self-esteem in order to succeed in life.  Remember, the only one who can make you excel is you and no one else.  The same goes for self-esteem.  The only person who can build up—or consequentially tear down—your self-esteem is you. Although other individuals may aide the process, the end decision is yours.

Low self-esteem can be devastating to an individual’s personal, work, and scholastic life.  The constant feeling of inadequacy and unworthiness can undermine attempts to succeed at even the smallest things.

Do you ever look at anyone and think you are not on the same “level” as they are physically, mentally, or athletically?  Do you see yourself as the least important member of your family, group of friends, or office?did you know that self-esteem, like happiness, is a state of mind? It can make you feel happy, cheerful and confident. It can also make you feel worthless, unwanted and weak. Self-esteem can best be compared to a powerful battery. When the battery is fully charged, the individual feels confident and raring to go; when the battery is run down the individual feels low and wants to hide.

Obviously, individuals with low self-esteem cannot be expected to do well in life. They will approach every issue with a lack of confidence even though they may be fully capable of doing a job. That is why self-belief is considered the bedrock of self-esteem. It gives an individual the extra confidence that makes all the difference between an achiever and a failure.

Would you like to be confident? Your answer may be – yes; I do want to be confident. However, this answer lacks the impact. It is too generalized. Just like everybody wants to do well in life and be rich but not many ever realize this wish. This is because to actually get somewhere in life, you need to quantify your confidence. You need to define the task for which you need to be confident so that you can execute it successfully.  A mere wish to be confident won’t take you anywhere. The dream must have a deadline as well!