Doing Your Part

Maintaining a positive attitude keeps a smile on your face and makes you pleasant to be around.  Don’t be deterred by those who don’t believe in the importance of positive thinking.  There are enough other people who will be positively influenced.

Demonstrate the importance of excellence by being the best you can be.  Don’t settle for “good enough” or mediocrity.  You should be able to be proud of the quality of all your work.  Avoid doing the minimum needed to just get by.

Be honorable, trustworthy, and dependable.  Speak out against injustice.  Be your own person.  Don’t go along with the crowd for the sake of acceptance.  Stick up for your friends and don’t bad mouth others.  Be a beacon of integrity.  There are far too many examples of dishonest and unethical behavior.

Don’t be a fair weather friend who is there only when times are good.  It’s when someone is down and out emotionally that they really need someone to turn to.  Be there for them even if you are the only one stepping up.

Set an example of the importance of accountability by taking responsibility for your life and circumstances.  Don’t behave like a victim by blaming others.  Don’t whine and complain.  Demonstrate the importance of a can do attitude by taking action.  Exhibit the benefits of developing effective problem solving skills.

Admit when you are wrong and apologize.  No one is perfect.  Continually strive to improve.  Set an example of humility.  There’s no need to brag or show off, especially when it hurts others.  Take advantage of your strengths while endeavoring to overcome your weaknesses.

Stay young at heart in order to maintain a sense of wonder and excitement.  Maintain an attitude of gratitude for all of the good things in your life you should be thankful for.  Don’t take things or people for granted.



Strange Facts –

Wonder why we / people say things that they don’t mean or mean things and we ignore them….1. There is always a little truth behind every I’m “JUST KIDDING”2. A little knowledge behind every ummm….”I DONT KNOW”

3. A little emotion behind every whatever, “I DONT CARE”

4. A little LOVE behind every”HATE”

5. A little PAIN behind every well really, “IT’S Ok”
Helping Self...

Today’s Wow Moment –

I am not a huge Oprah #FAN but I really thought that this was very interesting….. I think that it maybe a little “safe to say” that she ONLY replied back, due to the negativity of the comment!


Where Is She?

The daughter that I once knew and raised is MISSING……..(the old her is hiding somewhere)

Her kindness is MISSING………….

Her innonce is MISSING…….

Her trust is MISSING……

Her respectful behavior is MISSING…….

Her love for life is MISSING….

Her love for her little brother is MISSING…..

Her love for her mothe’s side of the family is MISSING…..

Her love  for love is MISSING……….

Her love for people is MISSING….

Her love for growth is MISSING….

Her love for unity is MISSING…..

Her love for understanding is MISSING…..

Her love for church is MISSSING…..

Her love for God is MISSING….

Her love for herself is MISSING….

Her love for prayer is MISSING……..

Her happiness is MISSING……….

Her ability to see how God sees her….her ability to see how I see her is MISSING……

Praying for my baby on today and hoping that SOONER than later – she will be found in 1 piece!

I miss her dearly and she must realize that the PRESENT her must be “put away” so she can GROW!