Helping Others….

If you don’t ask the right questions…you can never discover the answers which will move your life in the direction of possibility and purpose. What’s the ONE (?) question that you are holding yourself accountable to answer with your life choices today?
A great deal of people think that age ALWAYS plays a huge part in how individuals react to negative circumstances but that is not the case. It is imperative that we all, NO MATTER WHAT THE AGE have “accountability partners” to help direct us and keep our actions / motives / choices in tact.
“Are you the cause or the effect? Are you the engine or the caboose? Are you making history or watching history be made? Are you the one everyone is talking about or one of those doing the talking? Are you the thermostat or the thermometer? I love to teach these types of strategies to others who may fell that they are  in a tight spot and they need to know that hope is right around the corner. I can say this due to MY OWN crazy and heart wrenching experiences over the years….
Your life has an special purpose that only you can fulfill. It’s not a game….it’s your life. Take a leap of faith and move forward as if you could not fail. State your daily goals, and create forward momentum in your life.
Every day affirm to yourself that there is no emotion that you cannot handle, no difficulty that you cannot surmount, and no challenge that you cannot tackle. Face the future confidently – knowing that you were born for such a time as this!
Are you making things happen or waiting to see what happens? It is your life…play big but safe!”

10 to 6

Ummmm 10 to 6 is NOT  a shift that I am talking about…. that is the losing score that my son and his team experienced today! Honey, I was so mad that they lost because I was in 91 degree weather and it is ONLY worth the heat if you win!! Listen, I do not understand how either of them are able to co – habitat in the hot summer weather with barely getting a drink / a liter of water to drink….  I am so not that type of person to be the point that I spent a whole 45 minutes in my car with the car blowing on me!

I am so serious…. being at this game with the heat and NOT being able to keeo my weekend of 4 days of being alone, relxing and enjoying womanhood and NOT motherhood was very irritating! I mean the mere fact that his team lost by 4 points was just as bad but the 4 runs that they obtained was a curteousy of my son pitching and allowing players to get on base because he was ONLY throwing “balls” and only a handful of strikes!  He did good overall but my focus was on my alone time that was yet AGAIN shot to ruins!

Of course, as parents that we will do anything for our kids but I MUST SAY that this weekend was all about ME and it was taken away from me and  I am focusing on what is the most important ………………………… at least for tomorrow! >> ME  I have managed and proven my “amazing parent” award by my deeds and do not need a television t oshow me what else needs to be dealt with!


39 Degrees and Counting!

Yes it is indeed freezing people…. Welp…it was the first day of Soccer yesterday evening and it was snowing…the wind was blowing and the temperature was VERY brisk!!!

Try the low 30′s!!!


I cannot believe how big my son is getting and has been playing soccer 3 years straight with FULL comittment!!!

David Beckham plays a competitive match for Lo...
David Beckham plays a competitive match for Los Angeles Galaxy. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

He wants to be better than David Beckham!


Everytime I get a complaining moment..I remind myself that I rather be ripping and running via his activities rather him not having the desire to do anything…

However…being out of the house 6 days a week is HONESTLY a tad bit toooooo much!!!

Regardless via being a Single Parent or not but with only me doing everything, it does take me into overload as he has gotten older.

Kids running around with coats and hats on was a cute…funny and weird visual….

They play and practice in the rain and snow unless it starts thundering or lightening….things continue!

Welp it did neither but it just had snow flurries with COLD wind and the ONLY people who complained about the weather was us parents!!!

Yup!….the kids were great! LOL

Honey….. I see that the weather is acting a tad bit bonkers right through here but with baseball and soccer and ME …I dont know how well that will work being outside in this cold!