How Reality Shows “Should” Be…..

Move Over Mary Mary Gospel Reality Show! LOL

I cannot wait to see this….. Dont get me wrong, seeing Mary Mary’s reality show was just simply amazing TO ME at least because it was real and reminded me of me and my oldest sister!!! It showed that CHURCH FOLK are normal and have issues as well and argue and fuss like EVERYONE ELSE!
Ask for God‘s forgivness as well as anyone else we have offended and keep our days moving!!! UGGHH! Deep folk! But my team would not be flashy via sin!

Here is their link below: ( Mary – Mary )

If I had a reality show, I see it being with a mixture of Mary Mary, with a little hint of The Braxtons Family values! Sure people will judge, but WHO CARES- LOL

Yes, I love Jesus Christ
Yes, I LIVE the life because it is a lifestyle and not a trend
Yes, I am in ministry
Yes, I am a mother
Yes, I am a businesswoman
Yes, I am professional
Yes, I have friends from ” ALL ” walks of life (not all in church)

Being diversed …working with people from various backgrounds, staying true to who you are in CHRIST and having the skin tough enough to not worry about what others think of your process and productivity is indeed ME!


just want peace….

When it comes to my family…. whew Jesus is ALL that I can seem to say… My head just stays in the clouds lately when it comes to having a REAL PLAN to “re- adjust” my family….. then I doze off on PURPOSE realizing that all of this DYSFUNCTION is in God‘s VERY HUGE HOOLY HANDS!!


I think that I have tried everything but sell my soul to the devil to fix the craziness of my family! It indeed is just a travesty to see how the different siblings, nephews, nieces and children have their own viewpoints on so many things! EVERYDAY, I think to myself what happened to the era of when I was growing up how my father always instructed the siblings to work things out etc.

There is a show on cable and the channel is called Oxygen and it has a reality show about R & B singer Toni Braxton and her sisters. I am a late bloomer to the show because I just watched a few clips of it and the most recent one displayed  HORRID fussing with the siblings.


It was crazy because they all were right in their own way but it took like forever for all of them to collectively come together to just STOP IT AND SETTLE IT! There is ONLY 1 out of the sisters who seems to always seek for peace and try to get everyone calm and remind them why they need not to fight… A light bulb came on and I saw myself in her via trying to be the peacemaker…


It would be so nice to be able to just START OVER and even shake a few people in my family to let them know that being angry and holding onto things are so not worth it… Be mad..sure!!! But having the ability to hold grudges for days…months..years..etc.. that is simply insane dont you think!


Nonetheless, I am soooooooooo tired of being the big brother…. when I am NOT even a brother…. i used to be tired of being a big sister but that area has come full circle and things have become awesome……i am tired of being the pastor of my family….the therapist…the husband to the lonely etc….


Dont get me wrong I dont mind AT ALL wearing hats REGARDLESS how silly they may be…. but the point is… well MY point is just that I have been wearing them for over 20 years and these last 6 has DRAINED the living mess out of me..


I now see what my amazing mother used to mean when she would talk about some of the things that would make her happy… she never talked about cars, houses, clothes, or jewelry…. WELL WAIT… she loves diamonds… LOL

Seriously though, she would also pray for things like peace and wisdom, joy etc..etc.. God knows I understand Mommy!